What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
My 73 year old healthy mother has recently allowed my 50 year old brother, his wife, and 14 yr old son to move in with her because they were homeless and jobless after filing bankruptcy .
Within a month this family exposed their domestic violence habits of yelling, shaming, blaming, and otherwise emotionally abusing each other 24/7 to the point that my mother has become an emotional punching bag for the two adults in her own home. She has expressed fear of being alone with her daughter in law or even to speak to her because this woman manipulates the truth just enough to send my unstable brother after my mom in a rage of intimidation with ridicule and insults . Because of this ,too, my mother is on pins and needles as the hour approaches for my brother to come home from work (yes he finally got a job) , as she never knows when he is going to flip out on her. She revealed that during two of these outbursts directed at her via the wife, she began shaking uncontrollably and my brother just told her once to stop shaking and the next time said "oh dont' start that shaking again "
They have revealed their financial disfunctionality by ,( instead of saving quickly to get back on their independent feet,) enrolling the child in private school, sending him to baseball training camps, scheduling camping vacations, borrowing my mothers credit card after months of guilt ridden tirades against her because THEY have no credit .
My mother has gotten up the courage to tell them they need to leave.
If they do not, she is NOT prepared to go thru an eviction process, sherrif etc....for fear they will attempt to destroy her relationship with the grandchild in retaliation.
I am very fearful for her early demise from so much stress.
Q 1: What can a family member do to get the ball rolling them out the door while still keeping her safe ?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
My 73 year old healthy mother has recently allowed my 50 year old brother, his wife, and 14 yr old son to move in with her because they were homeless and jobless after filing bankruptcy .
Within a month this family exposed their domestic violence habits of yelling, shaming, blaming, and otherwise emotionally abusing each other 24/7 to the point that my mother has become an emotional punching bag for the two adults in her own home. She has expressed fear of being alone with her daughter in law or even to speak to her because this woman manipulates the truth just enough to send my unstable brother after my mom in a rage of intimidation with ridicule and insults . Because of this ,too, my mother is on pins and needles as the hour approaches for my brother to come home from work (yes he finally got a job) , as she never knows when he is going to flip out on her. She revealed that during two of these outbursts directed at her via the wife, she began shaking uncontrollably and my brother just told her once to stop shaking and the next time said "oh dont' start that shaking again "
They have revealed their financial disfunctionality by ,( instead of saving quickly to get back on their independent feet,) enrolling the child in private school, sending him to baseball training camps, scheduling camping vacations, borrowing my mothers credit card after months of guilt ridden tirades against her because THEY have no credit .
My mother has gotten up the courage to tell them they need to leave.
If they do not, she is NOT prepared to go thru an eviction process, sherrif etc....for fear they will attempt to destroy her relationship with the grandchild in retaliation.
I am very fearful for her early demise from so much stress.
Q 1: What can a family member do to get the ball rolling them out the door while still keeping her safe ?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
