falcon99usa
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?CA
I live in California, my fiancee lives in Illinois. I gave her the engagement ring ($18,000) during my trip to Chicago 2 years ago under condition that she will move to California and we will get married. Definitely it was not a birthday, Valentine's Day or Christmas gift. I understand both states law.
Not only that she found several excuses to move to California, after we agreed on time when she will move, but during recent phone argument about her moving, she stated that our relationship is obviously over (thanks God!). I couldn't agree with her more. I asked her to return the ring together with GIA original certificate (I also gave it to her later), and my personal items, but she is refusing to return that. I am flying to Chicago (trip purchased 2 months in advance), and I told her that I want to pick up the items mentioned above, but she even refuse to meet.
During our 3 1/2 year relationship I paid for everything, like my and her air tickets (one of us flying every month between CA and IL preferred seating or First Class, even during COVID-19), restaurants, entertainments, gifts, presents, ton of flowers, her personal items whatever she needed, iPad, medical expenses, clothings, her legal name change, groceries, concerts and shows, gas and repairs for her car, rental cars, small appliances, vacations and trips, etc.
I invested $100,00+ into her moving to my house, and in return she bought me twice coffee and breakfast and once paid for a small dinner on my birthday.
What a waste of time and money...love is blind!
My questions are:
1) Do I sue her in Illinois court, or at my home state California? Where do I file the court papers?
2) Do I have to serve her with court papers in person (private process server, sheriff, police, etc.) or simply by certified mail?
I live in California, my fiancee lives in Illinois. I gave her the engagement ring ($18,000) during my trip to Chicago 2 years ago under condition that she will move to California and we will get married. Definitely it was not a birthday, Valentine's Day or Christmas gift. I understand both states law.
Not only that she found several excuses to move to California, after we agreed on time when she will move, but during recent phone argument about her moving, she stated that our relationship is obviously over (thanks God!). I couldn't agree with her more. I asked her to return the ring together with GIA original certificate (I also gave it to her later), and my personal items, but she is refusing to return that. I am flying to Chicago (trip purchased 2 months in advance), and I told her that I want to pick up the items mentioned above, but she even refuse to meet.
During our 3 1/2 year relationship I paid for everything, like my and her air tickets (one of us flying every month between CA and IL preferred seating or First Class, even during COVID-19), restaurants, entertainments, gifts, presents, ton of flowers, her personal items whatever she needed, iPad, medical expenses, clothings, her legal name change, groceries, concerts and shows, gas and repairs for her car, rental cars, small appliances, vacations and trips, etc.
I invested $100,00+ into her moving to my house, and in return she bought me twice coffee and breakfast and once paid for a small dinner on my birthday.
What a waste of time and money...love is blind!
My questions are:
1) Do I sue her in Illinois court, or at my home state California? Where do I file the court papers?
2) Do I have to serve her with court papers in person (private process server, sheriff, police, etc.) or simply by certified mail?