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ex girlfriend getting married, trying to keep me from baby, forcing adoption secretly

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How Do I Stop The Beast??? Help Please!!

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Registered: Jun 2001
Posts: 1

quick summary.
i have a 2 yr old daughter who lives with her mother in Illinois. I live in Oregon. However, when the child was born we were in Montana. She is now a legal resident of Illinois as is my daughter. The mom wont talk to me, let me talk to baby or see her. She is getting married to a guy she met on the internet 8 months ago, date set for july. Once the marriage happens, hes going to try to adopt my daughter without my knowing. I have signed the Paternity paperwork and pay child support by order from montana(i am behind 6 months total) i have no formal visitation order and have only seen baby once in the last year and a half.(the mom didnt know about that) I want to get visitation or joint legal custody and stop the adoption......where do i start. There is absolutly no way i can afford legal costs so im on my own. Also, she moved from montana to illinois without telling me, and left no way for me to contact my daughter... she also tells my mother that if my mom tells me where shes at, my mom wont get to see or talk to baby anymore either.....is there a legal issue here?? Thank you for your help.....The story of Jory

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