Newlydivmomto4
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
What a surprise this morning, my ex got his orders to the East Coast. Knowing how much he wanted out of California, I was pretty much counting on him getting orders that are closer to where his new wife lives. He emailed me this morning, We need to talk, orders are in and they are to the East Coast.
For those who have read what I've been dealing with in the past; He has told me that he is not going to pursue trying for custody (this was before he got orders) and has been seeing the kids a bit more. I had to call him out on his relationship with his oldest son, he did not think that he had done as much emotional damage to him. I more or less told him that he was the only one who could repair the reltionship, an 11 yo is not going to. I encouraged my ex to pick up the phone and at least start talking to the child.
I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on a Parenting Plan or any websites that are good for this kind of thing. The kids are 4, 7, 9 and 11. Obviously the 4 yo cannot fly by herself, the other 3 have all flown by themselves. Any ideas and or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
What a surprise this morning, my ex got his orders to the East Coast. Knowing how much he wanted out of California, I was pretty much counting on him getting orders that are closer to where his new wife lives. He emailed me this morning, We need to talk, orders are in and they are to the East Coast.
For those who have read what I've been dealing with in the past; He has told me that he is not going to pursue trying for custody (this was before he got orders) and has been seeing the kids a bit more. I had to call him out on his relationship with his oldest son, he did not think that he had done as much emotional damage to him. I more or less told him that he was the only one who could repair the reltionship, an 11 yo is not going to. I encouraged my ex to pick up the phone and at least start talking to the child.
I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on a Parenting Plan or any websites that are good for this kind of thing. The kids are 4, 7, 9 and 11. Obviously the 4 yo cannot fly by herself, the other 3 have all flown by themselves. Any ideas and or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.