Family Stability

[fburke]

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts

My ex has custody of my 10-year-old son. I have an issue with her stability with other people in her life.

Since we have been split up she has brought in mutable people in her / my sons life. She has had relationships with females and males

My problem isn_t what she does with her life, it_s how she brings them into my son_s life and the speed in which she does this.

She meets these people on the internet and within a very short time there living with her planning marriage children ect_.

Girl 1: just a sleep over friend whenever the need arises.

Guy 1: after 4 months she found out he was a convicted child molester and wasn_t suppose to be around children_ he got caught living with her and had to go back to prison for another 4 years for violating his parole_

Guy 2: lived on her couch for 4 months sometimes made it to the bedroom hew also scared my son.

Guy 3: after a few months she found out that he was still married to someone else and everything from his name to his birth date was a lie_.

Girl 2: only comes around when no guy is in her life she gets used by my ex but she doesn_t see it_

Guy 4: just met 3 weeks ago already moved in with her, now talking about marriage buying a house ect_ like the other guys no job no education she won_t tell me anything about him.

this list does not include one night stands.....


I fear for my son. She brings people into his life very quickly then things go bad and she boots them. I dated my girlfriend for 3 months before my son even met her_we were then together 2 years before the discussion of marriage came up 3 years we were married and at that time had another child.

I don_t feel she_s being careful meeting people on the Internet and not even getting to know them before she moves them into her home. It is her life and I respect whomever she chooses to see on her own time, but she should show some discursion when she brings them into my son_s life.

I was considering going for custody so that my son could have a stable family life with my wife and his brother. Would this stand up in court? I don_t want this to turn into a total blood bath because it would only hurt him more. He has hinted around about living with me and once I by a bigger house with a third bedroom later this year I will be equipped to take him in.

I was just wondering if I have a valid request of the courts.


Thank you

 

[Neal1421]

Can you proove any of this?

 

[Silverplum]

You could mount a custody battle, but I've gotta tell you: bad parenting is allowed. Not abusive parenting, mind you. But poor parenting, poor choices, stupidity, lax morality, pathetic loser-ness -- all are allowed by law.

 

[fburke]

I have plenty of people to testify to it including people in her own family…..i don’t have any physical proof I don’t stalk her or have any private investigator reports.

I’m sure I could have someone do a little digging on who has lived with her having mail sent there ect over that past few years…

I can prove the child molester do to the fact being around my son was the reason he went back to jail I would have to make a few calls to other parts of the state where his case was but there must be a paper trail.

 

[Silverplum]

I have plenty of people to testify to it including people in her own family…..i don’t have any physical proof I don’t stalk her or have any private investigator reports.

I’m sure I could have someone do a little digging on who has lived with her having mail sent there ect over that past few years…

I can prove the child molester do to the fact being around my son was the reason he went back to jail I would have to make a few calls to other parts of the state where his case was but there must be a paper trail.

I think it would be wise of you to have a couple of consultations with family law attorneys in your area. Many offer free initial consults -- check out the yellow pages.

This is a far bigger battle than you are imagining, unless your X agrees to hand over custody. It'll either be way easy or a huge and costly war.

 

[haiku]

well having been there done that in Mass. I won't say don't see a lawyer for a consult, but I will say, unless your kid, is doing INCREDIBLY poorly in school, or had run ins with the law, you likely face an impossible battle.

there is no law in mass against being easy and being the custodial parent

 

[Probationer]

Mary Strikes Again By Being An Ass-Hole!

FUK YOU, MARY!
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FUK YOU, MARY!
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2006
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Mary Strikes Again By Changing My Forum Name to "Mary2"! But then, she banned "Mary2" so now I've come back as "Fuk You, Mary!" I love playing childish games, too!

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Mary2 Posts: n/a


What's the matter, Mary? Getting thin-skinned in your old age?




Quote:
Mary&GarrySuck
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 7


Originally Posted by Indiana Filer

IAAL,

I thought all that business was over! What happened?

I don't know where you got that idea, but no, it's not over. Mary knows what to do. She's the one who banned me, and keeps banning me, because she has tender skin. She's being childish, and as long as she's being childish, I'll do the same. I'll just keep coming back under different forum names - - since, apparently, that's what she wants, and can't do anything about it, except banning each new forum name.

I have, thus far, refrained from contacting her at her home out of respect for her kids who use the computer, preferring to let her know my thoughts about her on these forums. But, she knows what I want, and she can stop the lunacy if she wants. Or, I can keep coming back and taunting her. She refuses to contact me about this problem in any way, shape or form. Talk about childishness.

Got that, Mary?

IAAL


HERE'S A MESSAGE I RECEIVED FROM THAT STUPID BITCH, MARY . . .

vBulletin Message

You have been banned for the following reason:
None

Date the ban will be lifted: Never

What you don't seem to understand is that I'll just keep coming back under different forum names. That's all you can do - - is ban forum names. But, doing so doesn't ban "IAAL".

Besides, "never" is such a long time, right?

Geez, don't you learn?

IAAL

 

[growupiaal!]

youre the one acting like a child iaal

FUK YOU, MARY!
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 10



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FUK YOU, MARY!
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 7


Mary Strikes Again By Changing My Forum Name to "Mary2"! But then, she banned "Mary2" so now I've come back as "Fuk You, Mary!" I love playing childish games, too!

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Mary2 Posts: n/a


What's the matter, Mary? Getting thin-skinned in your old age?




Quote:
Mary&GarrySuck
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 7


Originally Posted by Indiana Filer

IAAL,

I thought all that business was over! What happened?

I don't know where you got that idea, but no, it's not over. Mary knows what to do. She's the one who banned me, and keeps banning me, because she has tender skin. She's being childish, and as long as she's being childish, I'll do the same. I'll just keep coming back under different forum names - - since, apparently, that's what she wants, and can't do anything about it, except banning each new forum name.

I have, thus far, refrained from contacting her at her home out of respect for her kids who use the computer, preferring to let her know my thoughts about her on these forums. But, she knows what I want, and she can stop the lunacy if she wants. Or, I can keep coming back and taunting her. She refuses to contact me about this problem in any way, shape or form. Talk about childishness.

Got that, Mary?

IAAL


HERE'S A MESSAGE I RECEIVED FROM THAT STUPID BITCH, MARY . . .

vBulletin Message

You have been banned for the following reason:
None

Date the ban will be lifted: Never

What you don't seem to understand is that I'll just keep coming back under different forum names. That's all you can do - - is ban forum names. But, doing so doesn't ban "IAAL".

Besides, "never" is such a long time, right?

Geez, don't you learn?

IAAL

i think YOU are the one who needs to grow up and stop acting childish, dude. you need your diaper changed?

 

[Just Blue]

i think YOU are the one who needs to grow up and stop acting childish, dude. you need your diaper changed?

Kelly..YOU OF ALL PEOPLE HAVE NO STANDING TO CRITICIZE ANYONE! You have been trolling this forum for a year spewing your regurgitated crap at poor stepmothers and grandparents....Go away...

 

[growupiaal!]

butt out

i wasnt talking to you was i? so kindly BUTT THE HELL OUT!

 

[Just Blue]

i wasnt talking to you was i? so kindly BUTT THE HELL OUT!

Hey Mental case!! IAAL wasn't talking to you but you felt the need to not only address him but to have a user name digging at him!!..You are a MORON!...

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Hey Mental case!! IAAL wasn't talking to you but you felt the need to not only address him but to have a user name digging at him!!..You are a MORON!...

Do you think she knows how stupid she looks?

 

[AHA]

What the hell is this all about??????

Get a room!!!!!

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

What the hell is this all about??????

Get a room!!!!!

It is just Kelly the forum mental nut job telling IAAL to grow up, if you can believe that!

 

[AHA]

It is just Kelly the forum mental nut job telling IAAL to grow up, if you can believe that!

Jerry Springer is like frikkin "Murder she wrote" compared to this farse.