waking beauty
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massachusetts
my daughters father is asking for a remodification on our order asking for his parenting time back...his parenting time was taken away from him due to his abandonment of our child...he moved out of state to (texas) and never left us with any contact info nor did he advice the courts and the DOR of his move...he left for 5 months and hasnt paid support since end of may 1st week of june 2008 and hasnt had a job since end of april 2008...Not even a year ago, he swore to the courts that he was enrolled in an undisclosed school for the spring semester of 2008 and that he had a job and was living in a house with 2 roommates…well for the past 11 months he has lost over 3 jobs, has never attended any school, has been evicted from 3 houses, one for failure to pay rent, and the other for failure to pay rent and larceny of 2000 dollars, and was homeless for the last 2 weekends of July having our daughter sleep on his friends couches at different houses during his parenting times, he is also currently in arrears of over 2000 dollars, and he left the state of Massachusetts abandoning our daughter without making reasonable provisions for her support, and he never informed the courts or the DOR of his move and his address change…
i dont want the judge to remodify the order....i went to court on nov 4th and he never showed up to dispute...now he is here and asking them to give him back his visits...
I consistently prove to be the stable and responsible parent for our daughter…I have held the same job at a local drug and alcohol hospital for 5 years, my phone number has been the same for over 7 years, I have been living with my parents as of our separation in June of 2006, and I have been in school since 2004 steadily working toward my degree…our daughter needs the continuation of an honest stable home environment…
what do u think will happen? i kno the courts dont like to have a parent completely removed from a childs life and those are not my goals...but I feel I would be doing our daughter a disservice by allowing him to put our daughter in dangerous situations and to abandon his daughter anytime he felt like doing so…
help please and thank u for the help
my daughters father is asking for a remodification on our order asking for his parenting time back...his parenting time was taken away from him due to his abandonment of our child...he moved out of state to (texas) and never left us with any contact info nor did he advice the courts and the DOR of his move...he left for 5 months and hasnt paid support since end of may 1st week of june 2008 and hasnt had a job since end of april 2008...Not even a year ago, he swore to the courts that he was enrolled in an undisclosed school for the spring semester of 2008 and that he had a job and was living in a house with 2 roommates…well for the past 11 months he has lost over 3 jobs, has never attended any school, has been evicted from 3 houses, one for failure to pay rent, and the other for failure to pay rent and larceny of 2000 dollars, and was homeless for the last 2 weekends of July having our daughter sleep on his friends couches at different houses during his parenting times, he is also currently in arrears of over 2000 dollars, and he left the state of Massachusetts abandoning our daughter without making reasonable provisions for her support, and he never informed the courts or the DOR of his move and his address change…
i dont want the judge to remodify the order....i went to court on nov 4th and he never showed up to dispute...now he is here and asking them to give him back his visits...
I consistently prove to be the stable and responsible parent for our daughter…I have held the same job at a local drug and alcohol hospital for 5 years, my phone number has been the same for over 7 years, I have been living with my parents as of our separation in June of 2006, and I have been in school since 2004 steadily working toward my degree…our daughter needs the continuation of an honest stable home environment…
what do u think will happen? i kno the courts dont like to have a parent completely removed from a childs life and those are not my goals...but I feel I would be doing our daughter a disservice by allowing him to put our daughter in dangerous situations and to abandon his daughter anytime he felt like doing so…
help please and thank u for the help
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