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KELVIDGE

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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Indiana

I need some advise on what I can do or if I can do anything about people running their mouth. My husband is the assistant wrestling coach for the high school. There are about three set of parents that want him and the head coach to quit because they want another guy in this spot, but what they do not understand is this person would never get hired because he has a criminal record.
We have always took the rumors and gossip that they spread around with a grain of salt and laughed at them because they are only making theirselves look stupid. But this year the rumors have already started and wrestling season hasn't even began. A person we know that works at the same place this guy does that the parents want to coach and during the summer he went up to him and said about my husband we will call him Tim "did you hear that Tim beat his middle child and he moved in with his girlfriend. This person he told was taken off guard by this and told I think you need to get your story straight and all he said was well that's what I heard.
The next rumor is a kid from the wrestling team last year signed an affidavit that he stoled beer from the coach's office that had the head coach and my husband's name on it. The recent one that has taken the cake is my husband got called to the HR office at his work and they wanted to inform him that someone outside of the company called in and said that Tim was having as affair with someone at his work. My husband was told not to say anything to anyone it was to stay in that office. So my husband said nothing, one of his co-workers that knows this guy that is running his mouth. He told Tim that he seen him the other day and he asked my husband's co-worker so who is Tim messing around with at work because his wife knows and she has had it and about to divorce him.
Now they have taken this way too far. But the problem is my husband works for the school so if he goes and just beats this guy up he will be in trouble. If he says anything to him the guy will probaly say Tim threatened him. So we are at a lost at what to do about this besides laugh it off because I am really getting tired of laughing it off. Any advise would be appriaciated. :mad:
 


BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
KELVIDGE said:
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Indiana

I need some advise on what I can do or if I can do anything about people running their mouth. My husband is the assistant wrestling coach for the high school. There are about three set of parents that want him and the head coach to quit because they want another guy in this spot, but what they do not understand is this person would never get hired because he has a criminal record.
We have always took the rumors and gossip that they spread around with a grain of salt and laughed at them because they are only making theirselves look stupid. But this year the rumors have already started and wrestling season hasn't even began. A person we know that works at the same place this guy does that the parents want to coach and during the summer he went up to him and said about my husband we will call him Tim "did you hear that Tim beat his middle child and he moved in with his girlfriend. This person he told was taken off guard by this and told I think you need to get your story straight and all he said was well that's what I heard.
The next rumor is a kid from the wrestling team last year signed an affidavit that he stoled beer from the coach's office that had the head coach and my husband's name on it. The recent one that has taken the cake is my husband got called to the HR office at his work and they wanted to inform him that someone outside of the company called in and said that Tim was having as affair with someone at his work. My husband was told not to say anything to anyone it was to stay in that office. So my husband said nothing, one of his co-workers that knows this guy that is running his mouth. He told Tim that he seen him the other day and he asked my husband's co-worker so who is Tim messing around with at work because his wife knows and she has had it and about to divorce him.
Now they have taken this way too far. But the problem is my husband works for the school so if he goes and just beats this guy up he will be in trouble. If he says anything to him the guy will probaly say Tim threatened him. So we are at a lost at what to do about this besides laugh it off because I am really getting tired of laughing it off. Any advise would be appriaciated. :mad:
Tell Tim to chill and you do the same. These are childish games and not LEGAL issues. UNTIL such time as "TIM" gets fired or demoted (damages) over the rumors, there is no legal action that CAN be taken.

Besides, "Tim's" retort the next time someone asks is "Hey, at least the rumor has me with a WOMAN!" :D
 

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