single317dad
Senior Member
Makes the whole lot of them look pretty disgusting, tbh. Dad here would rather talk about all that was taken from him than what he can offer this child. Mom's gravy train has apparently left the station and welfare is pursuing the baby daddy since the used-to-be-dad (who was apparently fine with being called 'Daddy' for 13 years until support was an issue) challenged paternity. If that guy had come here 6 months ago asking how to challenge paternity on a 15 year old girl who had no idea she had a different father, this board would have shredded him. If Mom had come here with this whole story of deception, she'd have been shredded as well. OP? Yeah, he has some of it coming, but he's probably the least guilty among this fine group of "responsible adults" who are apparently intent on wrecking this child's life.You think this makes you look better?
Dad. Go be a Dad. Get thee to the courthouse and begin right away. Do not delay further, and do not begrudge the child her father due to the actions of her mother.