lolitanabokovv
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Hello,
I got my first DUI two nights ago in southern California. I got pulled over for speeding (70+ on a 45 speed limit on the streets) and swerving. I failed all the sobriety tests and he cuffed me and took me to the station. After he did some paper work, he fingerprinted me, and did a blood test then let me go. At first I wasn't too worried (not to say that I think DUI is a small matter, I know what I did was irresponsible and foolish but this is very uncharacteristic of me. I went out for a few drinks because I found out that same day that my dad has only a few weeks to live. I know my depression does not justify anything nor will it stand up in court but I have been very sad and I definitely was not myself that night)..like I was saying, I wasn't too worried because everyone says your first DUI should be okay and you'll just get hit with many penalties and fees but after I heard that speeding and a high BAC are enhancements (I'm uncertain of my exact BAC but I'm sure it was very high, maybe .2 or higher) and that equals mandatory jail time. Upon hearing that, it made me worried. I already feel horrible for making my mom go through this when we are already going through my dad's imminent demise. We are not financially stable to secure a lawyer but I am scared that the court will take advantage of my young age (I'm 22) and my lack of experience of the court and its complexities. I do not want to endure a higher punishment than I would with a lawyer. I was just hoping to hear some reassuring words and advice about the jail time, punishment, fees, penalties and what I should do to make this as easy as possible. My plan was to leave the country after my dad's death in a few weeks because my mom and I could not financially afford living in the states and we've been in emotional distress for the last 4 years from my dad's cancer. But my first court hearing is in 1 1/2 months so I cannot leave the country. Thank you for taking your time to read this
Hello,
I got my first DUI two nights ago in southern California. I got pulled over for speeding (70+ on a 45 speed limit on the streets) and swerving. I failed all the sobriety tests and he cuffed me and took me to the station. After he did some paper work, he fingerprinted me, and did a blood test then let me go. At first I wasn't too worried (not to say that I think DUI is a small matter, I know what I did was irresponsible and foolish but this is very uncharacteristic of me. I went out for a few drinks because I found out that same day that my dad has only a few weeks to live. I know my depression does not justify anything nor will it stand up in court but I have been very sad and I definitely was not myself that night)..like I was saying, I wasn't too worried because everyone says your first DUI should be okay and you'll just get hit with many penalties and fees but after I heard that speeding and a high BAC are enhancements (I'm uncertain of my exact BAC but I'm sure it was very high, maybe .2 or higher) and that equals mandatory jail time. Upon hearing that, it made me worried. I already feel horrible for making my mom go through this when we are already going through my dad's imminent demise. We are not financially stable to secure a lawyer but I am scared that the court will take advantage of my young age (I'm 22) and my lack of experience of the court and its complexities. I do not want to endure a higher punishment than I would with a lawyer. I was just hoping to hear some reassuring words and advice about the jail time, punishment, fees, penalties and what I should do to make this as easy as possible. My plan was to leave the country after my dad's death in a few weeks because my mom and I could not financially afford living in the states and we've been in emotional distress for the last 4 years from my dad's cancer. But my first court hearing is in 1 1/2 months so I cannot leave the country. Thank you for taking your time to read this