HI:
oops sorry that the ex has passed away....... and to be judgmental on your ability as a mother, but then you are the exception, most single parents have an ex, and are usually getting screwed.
Did the ex have any life insurance? or any money at all?
and what about the grandparents on his side, do they feel living in a crummy place is what you deserve, or what the grandkids deserve? or are they a bunch of flat broke rednecks too?
I guess what this boils down to is you must depend on family to help out in times of need, and to try and blame the landlord who is no relation to you is what i guess people find offensive.
Just like anything else, you want to break the lease you have to sue the landlord in small claims or civil court, and present your eveidence to a judge, and if the judge agrees
well you win,
A lease works both ways, a landlord cannot just evict you without penalties, and you cannot break a lease without penalties. So spend some time this week at your local courthouse and start asking questions about this, most of the people in small claims court or civil court will be helpful and finding and filling out the right forms..
This will be a great learning experience about a little known country called AMERICA!
[Edited by djdj on 01-27-2001 at 09:09 AM]