bonkers101
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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
Texas -
My exhusband called last night and attempted to guilt me. I told him i would check into this...
Background - divorced in 1997, he has never really paid support, maybe $100 or $200 here and there.
Last check was years ago and it was up to $25000 I think in arrears plus interest.
Now, he claims he wants to be in his sons life and be a positive role model. Our son is now 13, he has seen him about once or twice a year (of dads choice).
Our son had cancer and I think it scared his dad straight. He quit drinking and doing whatever he was doing and seems to want to go the straight and narrow now.
So, he is off of probation for some offense (I didn't ask what), and he wants to go to Iraq to work and make loads of money so he can be a good person and a good dad when he comes back. Problem is, he owes probably 50K in support and I'm assuming they won't let him join or leave the country.
He claims I could "forgive" the arrears or the interest at least. I told him it wasn't even my money and how could I do that?
I'm not on any welfare, not remarried, own my home, but our son was on medicaid while in treatments for a couple of years so I assume the state of TX will look at what is probably a half a million dollar bill and want to collect at least some of it back. Am I right?
Can "I" somehow forgive his debt to his son?
Thanks for any advice.
Texas -
My exhusband called last night and attempted to guilt me. I told him i would check into this...
Background - divorced in 1997, he has never really paid support, maybe $100 or $200 here and there.
Last check was years ago and it was up to $25000 I think in arrears plus interest.
Now, he claims he wants to be in his sons life and be a positive role model. Our son is now 13, he has seen him about once or twice a year (of dads choice).
Our son had cancer and I think it scared his dad straight. He quit drinking and doing whatever he was doing and seems to want to go the straight and narrow now.
So, he is off of probation for some offense (I didn't ask what), and he wants to go to Iraq to work and make loads of money so he can be a good person and a good dad when he comes back. Problem is, he owes probably 50K in support and I'm assuming they won't let him join or leave the country.
He claims I could "forgive" the arrears or the interest at least. I told him it wasn't even my money and how could I do that?
I'm not on any welfare, not remarried, own my home, but our son was on medicaid while in treatments for a couple of years so I assume the state of TX will look at what is probably a half a million dollar bill and want to collect at least some of it back. Am I right?
Can "I" somehow forgive his debt to his son?
Thanks for any advice.