What is the name of your state? N.C, I have a child that was born out of wedlock, I had a detrimental relationship with her father that included violence and had him arrested for beating me over 2 years ago. I made him leave and he has seen his child every other weekend and fri. nites because I work early Sat. mornings. He hasn't paid support and insisted he 'babysits' so that's his support. I have filed for support and his new fiance (2nd fiance in 10 months) has now got very involved and things are bad. They called child protective services and I got a very 'complete' CLEAR report that my home and children (I have a son as well) are in order. Now this new fiance has written me an extensive letter stating they are going to seek full custody! We never went to court so nothing is written. I did consult a lawyer and she said this is clearly a 'support issue' because in the letter the 'g/f' said she has the $$ to retain the BEST lawyers and they have the 'means' to better provide for my child and the lawyer said the letter is going to be my 'saving grace'... that the letter was going to show the judge/court what this is all about and how they think money can buy anything even my child. Ex can be bought, my child can't. Keep in mind she can't have children, now they want mine. My child is 4 yrs. old. The lawyer wants $4300.00 up front to take my case. I need to know anyone in NC know of any other recourse? I'm sorry so long, noone to talk to ,, Please help!