What is the name of your state? NY
We are foster parents to our twin grandsons. They were first given to us through cps by an article 10 and then we became foster parents and they are exchanged to our foster children in May of this year. We've had them 7nths so far and it's looking to go toward adoption. They are our daughters children (she's 20) and now we've been told she's pregnant again and to prepare to take in the newborn as well as she's not done anything they've asked her :/ we've had to cut all ties right now with her just to be safe. We just received in the mail an order to pay her child support because she's filed for help through welfare and they are helping her with everything. My question is (I'm her mom husband is her stepfather) why are we supposed to pay her child support when she left at 18 (didn't want to follow house rules that were very normal for anyone) she wanted to live on her own- and then got pregnant the 1st time - babies have been with us since birth because she wouldn't take care of them (although legally since last Dec) and now we're supposed to pay to support her 2 children we already have- her now too and her new baby eventually? Plus her boyfriend (baby's father) lives with her and refuses to work. She quit her job a few weeks ago. Doesn't participate in her drug program at all. How is this possible? And because I get disability (I'm home disabled) they ordered my husband (her stepfather) to pay it? I find this absolutely ridiculous and unfair. Please advise.
We are foster parents to our twin grandsons. They were first given to us through cps by an article 10 and then we became foster parents and they are exchanged to our foster children in May of this year. We've had them 7nths so far and it's looking to go toward adoption. They are our daughters children (she's 20) and now we've been told she's pregnant again and to prepare to take in the newborn as well as she's not done anything they've asked her :/ we've had to cut all ties right now with her just to be safe. We just received in the mail an order to pay her child support because she's filed for help through welfare and they are helping her with everything. My question is (I'm her mom husband is her stepfather) why are we supposed to pay her child support when she left at 18 (didn't want to follow house rules that were very normal for anyone) she wanted to live on her own- and then got pregnant the 1st time - babies have been with us since birth because she wouldn't take care of them (although legally since last Dec) and now we're supposed to pay to support her 2 children we already have- her now too and her new baby eventually? Plus her boyfriend (baby's father) lives with her and refuses to work. She quit her job a few weeks ago. Doesn't participate in her drug program at all. How is this possible? And because I get disability (I'm home disabled) they ordered my husband (her stepfather) to pay it? I find this absolutely ridiculous and unfair. Please advise.