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Forgive me if this question has been answered, I will try to explain in detail but not eat up three pages doing so. Me and my g/f have been together now for about 8yrs, and what has happened started with the conception of our first son who is now 7. When my son was born I was in Texas (still in the picture just visiting family) and she was approached at the hospital by a member of the government (FOC FIA etc not sure which) who informed her that if she didn't pursue an order of support than my son would not recieve insurance (I'm not sure if there's any truth to this) but was also told that the order could be stopped at any time. (Yes we actually need assistance and are not trying to milk the state, I am a very hardworking person) After I returned a day later and was given the news, I contacted Foc and was told there was no such order, well a year later (mind you I was working landscaping with my step-father through this whole time) I was able to start a job at the local GM plant and make much more money. After a month or so I noticed that the support order that I thought was a "never was" became an "always been there". Being that I was not on the books with my step-father I was not able to be tracked by the collections dept. at FOC and once I popped up the order became $65 a week (which my not be alot but when your already taking care of a family it doesn't make much sense to me to pay twice. Also before I get on a rant we (my g/f and I have always lived together. So when I set up a date with the caseworker, I was arrested (before not at). And as a result lost our house (rented not bought) Mean while I get out set up another date to get the order stopped and was then told that the only way to do so is get on the grant with my family (I felt I didn't need the states help even though my family did) but to do so ment that we would have to live together and have proof (bill, lease agreement etc) but since we lost our house we haven't been able to save up money to get another house because of paying CS (we were although still living together with her parents) and our other bills. So, not using my head, decided the only way to save up was to not pay CS which worked, for about 2 months when I was arrested again, thus starting the vicuios (sp) circle over again. This went on until about a year and a half ago when a barrowed money from my parents and put a deposit and first months rent on a home. And followed through with everything I was told to do to get he order stopped, and even got the judges signiture on the order to stop the support order BUT (now the kicker and questions) Child support is still after me (not for arrearges) for the order ??? also my income tax is being with held and I may go to jail at any time from the looks of the letters I've been getting. On a side note we have a total of 4 children Oldest son, twins boy and girl and our youngest daughter. All of which have been put on this same order even though my g/f never signed a thing. I feel beaten down by the government and lost, we own a home together now, that I'm afraid to put my name on because they may take it not to mention the possibilty of losing it because I get sent to prison or heck even 30 days would cause that. What can do I set up another appointment with our NEW case worker and am afraid to go because I may go o jail and we'll lose everything. What can I do to prepare for this. What can I do to stop them from taking my taxes the rest of my checks and to get back the money I paid into so far not to mention the arrearages
Forgive me if this question has been answered, I will try to explain in detail but not eat up three pages doing so. Me and my g/f have been together now for about 8yrs, and what has happened started with the conception of our first son who is now 7. When my son was born I was in Texas (still in the picture just visiting family) and she was approached at the hospital by a member of the government (FOC FIA etc not sure which) who informed her that if she didn't pursue an order of support than my son would not recieve insurance (I'm not sure if there's any truth to this) but was also told that the order could be stopped at any time. (Yes we actually need assistance and are not trying to milk the state, I am a very hardworking person) After I returned a day later and was given the news, I contacted Foc and was told there was no such order, well a year later (mind you I was working landscaping with my step-father through this whole time) I was able to start a job at the local GM plant and make much more money. After a month or so I noticed that the support order that I thought was a "never was" became an "always been there". Being that I was not on the books with my step-father I was not able to be tracked by the collections dept. at FOC and once I popped up the order became $65 a week (which my not be alot but when your already taking care of a family it doesn't make much sense to me to pay twice. Also before I get on a rant we (my g/f and I have always lived together. So when I set up a date with the caseworker, I was arrested (before not at). And as a result lost our house (rented not bought) Mean while I get out set up another date to get the order stopped and was then told that the only way to do so is get on the grant with my family (I felt I didn't need the states help even though my family did) but to do so ment that we would have to live together and have proof (bill, lease agreement etc) but since we lost our house we haven't been able to save up money to get another house because of paying CS (we were although still living together with her parents) and our other bills. So, not using my head, decided the only way to save up was to not pay CS which worked, for about 2 months when I was arrested again, thus starting the vicuios (sp) circle over again. This went on until about a year and a half ago when a barrowed money from my parents and put a deposit and first months rent on a home. And followed through with everything I was told to do to get he order stopped, and even got the judges signiture on the order to stop the support order BUT (now the kicker and questions) Child support is still after me (not for arrearges) for the order ??? also my income tax is being with held and I may go to jail at any time from the looks of the letters I've been getting. On a side note we have a total of 4 children Oldest son, twins boy and girl and our youngest daughter. All of which have been put on this same order even though my g/f never signed a thing. I feel beaten down by the government and lost, we own a home together now, that I'm afraid to put my name on because they may take it not to mention the possibilty of losing it because I get sent to prison or heck even 30 days would cause that. What can do I set up another appointment with our NEW case worker and am afraid to go because I may go o jail and we'll lose everything. What can I do to prepare for this. What can I do to stop them from taking my taxes the rest of my checks and to get back the money I paid into so far not to mention the arrearages
