Grandma getting added to guardianship

[Reddirtgranny]

Two minor grand children ages seven and nine. Mother died a year ago father has a criminal history. Grandfather obtained temporary guardianship. Grandmother moved in after death of the child’s mother and has been primary care taker in the home. How does grandmother go about getting added to the guardianship so she has legal rights to help with IEP‘s and medical care etc. etc. Less she file separately from grandfather or be added onto a new petition for joint guardianship and future custody once father is deemed unfit. Also Kim the father relinquish her parental rights and name both grandparents as guardians. Thank you for your time

 

[quincy]

What is the name of your state?

 

[ALawyer]

Tragic situation, and it's a good thing the grandparents are willing to step in. However, as you've not provided any information as to the state involved, and it's unclear if the grandfather and grandmother are married, acting together and/or even on the same page, it's hard to provide and guidance.

 

[Reddirtgranny]

New York State they are not married but currently living together to car for the girls properly. Grandpa said when he wins permanent custody he will add her in, but she is afraid that may not really occur and Since the case is still in flux she was wondering if she could add her name to the petition or if they should file a new petition together to close this case out and give her rights to act in the best interest of the children

 

[t74]

Why does grandPA think he will win custody? Where is dad?

GrandMA, you need to contact the local social service agency to have the professionals there (most likely social workers for the community resources available and counselors for the children) assist you. Someone also needs to follow up on the benefits due the children from mom's SS if she qualified. They will likely direct you also to consult an attorney. If cost is an issue, contact the local legal aid clinic where services are provided based on ability to pay. If you have trouble determining which agency to contact, ask the counselor/social worker/principal at the children's school.

 

[Zigner]

Where is dad?

That is the $64,000 question. OP says that dad has a "criminal history". In certain states, a "criminal history" can include getting caught driving without a license while on the way to the DMV for the driving test. "Criminal history" doesn't (necessarily) mean anything.