I live in Texas. My father is the executor of my grandmothers estate while she's in a nursing home with altzhimers. He has to report all his spending of her money to the state once a year but my father lives in Virginia and is drinking heavely. I live very close to where my grandmas nursing home is and I believe I'm in a better state of mind than my father is these days. I'm afraid he'll miss manage her money. Can I take over as executor and how would I do this?