familyoffive181
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Hi, I am new on here so please bear with me if this post seems kinda long! I am married to a man who has two children with an ex from Kentucky. We began fighting her for Custody/Visitation about 5 years ago and FINALLY got the kids in November of 2007. We were involved in a Circuit Court Action against her for more visitation time (my husband and I live in Texas, BM lives in Ky.) when my husband was called by a Social Worker in Kentucky and told to be in court on September 11, 2007 to get his kids!!
When he asked her what this court date was in regards to he was told that the kids were being removed due to "gross negligence" and abuse. We officially got the kids on November 6, 2007 and have had them ever since. The State of Kentucky also took her 11 month old child by a different father who is "unknown by the mother". That child is currently in a Concurrent Foster Home in Kentucky and is in the process of being adopted. The mother of all of these kids' Parental Rights were terminated on December 18, 2007 and she has a NCO (No Contact Order) by the Judge for all three.
My question is this: she lived in her parent's home after she was evicted in the middle of this whole ordeal. They were determined to be unfit and not mentally sound individuals to be around the children and their home was deemed filthy and not appropriate for them to be living in. These people have also been the source for a lot of the Psychological effects on the two children that we have here. They have been in counseling since we first got them and have revealed a lot of disturbing information as well. These "grandparents" now call our home frequently demanding their "rights" be respected with regards to speaking to their grandchildren. My husband was given Sole Legal and Physical Custody of his girls and was told that ANY visitation or communication between his children and their Maternal family was completely up to his discretion.
I email them pics of the kids all the time because I do realize that they are in fact the children's grandparents but I do not feel that they should be allowed to speak to the girls over the phone at this time. The children's Psychologist/Therapist has recommended that the grandparents have no contact with the children based upon information that has been collected from the children. These people have been deemed Mentally unsound by the State as well as Psychiatrists there in Kentucky during this whole period of time. Should we allow them to ever speak to these kids again? Are the emails of pictures enough? What are their rights in Kentucky?
These people told these kids on December 17, 2007 that "they were not going to have a Christmas in Texas with their Daddy and myself and our daughter, their sister". The kids were telling their MGP's all about how they were going to decorate the tree and so on and so forth and that was the response they got from the Grandparents. I would greatly appreciate any and all advice given because we do not want to go outside of what is best. BTW...the kids have stated ever since they got here that they do not want to ever see these people again and do not want to go back to Kentucky again. There are allegations against the MGF of Sexual Abuse with the youngest child but the counselors are still working on talking about it with her. This has been a total nightmare for these kids and us alike but we just want to make sure that no one else can ever hurt them again! Thanks in advance...
When he asked her what this court date was in regards to he was told that the kids were being removed due to "gross negligence" and abuse. We officially got the kids on November 6, 2007 and have had them ever since. The State of Kentucky also took her 11 month old child by a different father who is "unknown by the mother". That child is currently in a Concurrent Foster Home in Kentucky and is in the process of being adopted. The mother of all of these kids' Parental Rights were terminated on December 18, 2007 and she has a NCO (No Contact Order) by the Judge for all three.
My question is this: she lived in her parent's home after she was evicted in the middle of this whole ordeal. They were determined to be unfit and not mentally sound individuals to be around the children and their home was deemed filthy and not appropriate for them to be living in. These people have also been the source for a lot of the Psychological effects on the two children that we have here. They have been in counseling since we first got them and have revealed a lot of disturbing information as well. These "grandparents" now call our home frequently demanding their "rights" be respected with regards to speaking to their grandchildren. My husband was given Sole Legal and Physical Custody of his girls and was told that ANY visitation or communication between his children and their Maternal family was completely up to his discretion.
I email them pics of the kids all the time because I do realize that they are in fact the children's grandparents but I do not feel that they should be allowed to speak to the girls over the phone at this time. The children's Psychologist/Therapist has recommended that the grandparents have no contact with the children based upon information that has been collected from the children. These people have been deemed Mentally unsound by the State as well as Psychiatrists there in Kentucky during this whole period of time. Should we allow them to ever speak to these kids again? Are the emails of pictures enough? What are their rights in Kentucky?
These people told these kids on December 17, 2007 that "they were not going to have a Christmas in Texas with their Daddy and myself and our daughter, their sister". The kids were telling their MGP's all about how they were going to decorate the tree and so on and so forth and that was the response they got from the Grandparents. I would greatly appreciate any and all advice given because we do not want to go outside of what is best. BTW...the kids have stated ever since they got here that they do not want to ever see these people again and do not want to go back to Kentucky again. There are allegations against the MGF of Sexual Abuse with the youngest child but the counselors are still working on talking about it with her. This has been a total nightmare for these kids and us alike but we just want to make sure that no one else can ever hurt them again! Thanks in advance...