What is the name of your state? Missouri
The father of my child and his new wife of 3 months are trying to force me to only communicate with the father through group text only. When i message him, he texts her what I sent and then she responds to me instead of him just replying to me with a yes or no. When I message him directly about our child, SHE responds via group chat and now when I reach out to him, if it's not in a group chat with her, I get no response at all. If I call him, he sends me to voicemail and then immediately puts me in a group message with her and she responds. She threatened to have me served with documents that would make me adhere to the group text if I didn't keep all communication in the group chat. I keep my communication with the father to a minimal because he's difficult to deal with at times and I don't like drama so I only text him when necessary and all communication is strictly about our child. It's enough drama dealing with him and since he is the father, it is something I have no choice but to deal with but I'm am not obligated to deal with any nonsense from anyone else. His wife has been disrespectful and has over stepped multiple boundaries with me and my child and he has allowed her. I am also left out of things pertaining to my child and either notified at the last minute or not at all. She took my child to urgent care one day and I wasn't notified until hours later. She has also looked into my child's medical documents that are in my name with his father being nowhere listed or entitled to give permission or access to these documents. There's alot more but too much to list. On top of that, they are constantly late with dropping him off on the scheduled date and time and lately there has been no communication or courtesy of informing me of being late. Me and the father have joint custody and no matter how much he disappoints me with his behavior with co parenting, I always try to be the bigger person and I always act in the ways of how I would want to be treated regarding my child but under the circumstances and constant conflict, I find it absolutely unnecessary to communicate with the stepmom and him via group chat unless there is an emergency regarding my child... not for everyday or simple questions that I have for the father. Does anyone have any thoughts or suggestions about this matter or if there's anything I can do?
The father of my child and his new wife of 3 months are trying to force me to only communicate with the father through group text only. When i message him, he texts her what I sent and then she responds to me instead of him just replying to me with a yes or no. When I message him directly about our child, SHE responds via group chat and now when I reach out to him, if it's not in a group chat with her, I get no response at all. If I call him, he sends me to voicemail and then immediately puts me in a group message with her and she responds. She threatened to have me served with documents that would make me adhere to the group text if I didn't keep all communication in the group chat. I keep my communication with the father to a minimal because he's difficult to deal with at times and I don't like drama so I only text him when necessary and all communication is strictly about our child. It's enough drama dealing with him and since he is the father, it is something I have no choice but to deal with but I'm am not obligated to deal with any nonsense from anyone else. His wife has been disrespectful and has over stepped multiple boundaries with me and my child and he has allowed her. I am also left out of things pertaining to my child and either notified at the last minute or not at all. She took my child to urgent care one day and I wasn't notified until hours later. She has also looked into my child's medical documents that are in my name with his father being nowhere listed or entitled to give permission or access to these documents. There's alot more but too much to list. On top of that, they are constantly late with dropping him off on the scheduled date and time and lately there has been no communication or courtesy of informing me of being late. Me and the father have joint custody and no matter how much he disappoints me with his behavior with co parenting, I always try to be the bigger person and I always act in the ways of how I would want to be treated regarding my child but under the circumstances and constant conflict, I find it absolutely unnecessary to communicate with the stepmom and him via group chat unless there is an emergency regarding my child... not for everyday or simple questions that I have for the father. Does anyone have any thoughts or suggestions about this matter or if there's anything I can do?
