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RLHK
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Missouri
I recently resigned from my position because of Harassing behavior by another employee. The harassment had occurred on several occasions throughout a two month period. It always occurred in the presence of other people, either co-workers or vendors, and was sometimes sexual, intimidating, or insulting.
I went to my manager and explained the situation to him. I was very clear and to the point with the situation and told him that at the time I did not wish to file a complaint but I did not want this person to continue to be in my office. (He had a separate office but thought that he could work more effectively in mine.) My manager stated to me the following day that this employee had been counseled and that it would not continue.
The day after that I received a phone call at home from the "harasser". He said that what I had done was not right and that if anything else were to be brought to our manager he would tell everyone what he knew about me. To which I responded that he knew nothing about me that would affect my career in any way. He said that he would begin telling people of our supposed affair and the affairs that I supposedly had with other team members. I told him that no one would believe any of this and he said that if anything happened to affect his position he would find a way to make me pay.
I returned to work the next day to a very hostile situation between this person and myself. He was still continuously in my office and was not saying anything to me but making comments about me to other people.
I resigned from my position because I felt intimidated and afraid for my personal safety. When I went to my manager with my resignation he seemed a bit surprised. He stated that this other person had come back to him telling him not to worry that we had "kissed and made up."
Since my resignation I have filed a formal statement with the company and several co-workers have on my behalf. It has been over a month since I left the company and they are still in counseling with this person. He has now made a point of telling every person who works there all about my alleged affair with him and how when he broke it off I got angry with him and left my position. He is also threatening to sue the company and everyone involved if he loses his job. If he does this will he have any right to make me testify? Also, do you believe the company handled the situation correctly?
I recently resigned from my position because of Harassing behavior by another employee. The harassment had occurred on several occasions throughout a two month period. It always occurred in the presence of other people, either co-workers or vendors, and was sometimes sexual, intimidating, or insulting.
I went to my manager and explained the situation to him. I was very clear and to the point with the situation and told him that at the time I did not wish to file a complaint but I did not want this person to continue to be in my office. (He had a separate office but thought that he could work more effectively in mine.) My manager stated to me the following day that this employee had been counseled and that it would not continue.
The day after that I received a phone call at home from the "harasser". He said that what I had done was not right and that if anything else were to be brought to our manager he would tell everyone what he knew about me. To which I responded that he knew nothing about me that would affect my career in any way. He said that he would begin telling people of our supposed affair and the affairs that I supposedly had with other team members. I told him that no one would believe any of this and he said that if anything happened to affect his position he would find a way to make me pay.
I returned to work the next day to a very hostile situation between this person and myself. He was still continuously in my office and was not saying anything to me but making comments about me to other people.
I resigned from my position because I felt intimidated and afraid for my personal safety. When I went to my manager with my resignation he seemed a bit surprised. He stated that this other person had come back to him telling him not to worry that we had "kissed and made up."
Since my resignation I have filed a formal statement with the company and several co-workers have on my behalf. It has been over a month since I left the company and they are still in counseling with this person. He has now made a point of telling every person who works there all about my alleged affair with him and how when he broke it off I got angry with him and left my position. He is also threatening to sue the company and everyone involved if he loses his job. If he does this will he have any right to make me testify? Also, do you believe the company handled the situation correctly?