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tcaba
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new york
what a fiasco. a coworker hit on me at an after work function, to which i rejected him. less than a month later his wife began calling my work number, cell and home number accusing me of having an affair. from the moment it happened, i notified the precinct by my job and human resources. in addition, i put in a request for a restraining order against this women in the state that she lives in. i had all her messages transcribed and given to human reosurces. i had to go to therapy and i finally requested that i be moved to another position b/c the information his wife had was very detailed implying he participated a great deal to her concocted story of an affair. i was put in a VO environment for a week and was told to return to work to resume my "normal work activities". My request for a transfer was denied and the lawyers at my job are arguing that i have no grounds to make any requests. i explained i am not comfortable continuing to work on the same team with this individual. in addition, he is currently filing for divorce after only 3 mths of marriage and that they have a child together which means a relationship btw. the two will continue to exist making it hard for me to believe that this problem will go away and not arise again in the near future.
now , human resources is upset with me for pursuing a transfer and not accepting their reponse as an adequate resolution. after a month of phone calls, my number at work was finally changed. but i am still not comfortable working this man. he was allowed release form his current position before his two year requirement to receive a promotion..while my request was denied for a mere transfer ..no promotion invloved. they are also telling me that if i do get released i will have a set amount of time to find a new position, after that date i will be let go.... is there nothing i can do? EOE tells me they cannot do anything since it is not another employee... AT&T tells me the same thing...... I've hired a lawyer but he says i have no grounds... so now I'm poor and on my own.lol. does anyone have any advice to give that can help????
thanks
tanya
what a fiasco. a coworker hit on me at an after work function, to which i rejected him. less than a month later his wife began calling my work number, cell and home number accusing me of having an affair. from the moment it happened, i notified the precinct by my job and human resources. in addition, i put in a request for a restraining order against this women in the state that she lives in. i had all her messages transcribed and given to human reosurces. i had to go to therapy and i finally requested that i be moved to another position b/c the information his wife had was very detailed implying he participated a great deal to her concocted story of an affair. i was put in a VO environment for a week and was told to return to work to resume my "normal work activities". My request for a transfer was denied and the lawyers at my job are arguing that i have no grounds to make any requests. i explained i am not comfortable continuing to work on the same team with this individual. in addition, he is currently filing for divorce after only 3 mths of marriage and that they have a child together which means a relationship btw. the two will continue to exist making it hard for me to believe that this problem will go away and not arise again in the near future.
now , human resources is upset with me for pursuing a transfer and not accepting their reponse as an adequate resolution. after a month of phone calls, my number at work was finally changed. but i am still not comfortable working this man. he was allowed release form his current position before his two year requirement to receive a promotion..while my request was denied for a mere transfer ..no promotion invloved. they are also telling me that if i do get released i will have a set amount of time to find a new position, after that date i will be let go.... is there nothing i can do? EOE tells me they cannot do anything since it is not another employee... AT&T tells me the same thing...... I've hired a lawyer but he says i have no grounds... so now I'm poor and on my own.lol. does anyone have any advice to give that can help????
thanks
tanya
