health care moren succintly

[andrewmary]

california
Ok sorry let me try it this way.

my daughters mother has temp custody.
6 weeks ago before the seperation I prepared healthy familys Health care application and asked her to mail it .she did not
we are now in a custody dispute and my daughter has no health care.
I represented this fact to her attorney on 7/18 and he said she had singned uo for blue cross.
I dont believe this is true.
I have in the meantime resubmitted the healthy familys application and just need her pay stubs to finilise the application.
On 7/20 I asked her attorney to provide proof of my daughter having health care.
He has not .I want to address this in a more legal way and get it infront of the court asap
as I believe my daughter has been disadvantaged and put at risk by her mothers actins in delaying her health care coverage . also ther is substantial cost difference and I am not willing to pay for private if we can get good insc through the govt.
thanx.

 

[acmb05]

california
Ok sorry let me try it this way.

my daughters mother has temp custody.
6 weeks ago before the seperation I prepared healthy familys Health care application and asked her to mail it .she did not
we are now in a custody dispute and my daughter has no health care.
I represented this fact to her attorney on 7/18 and he said she had singned uo for blue cross.
I dont believe this is true.
I have in the meantime resubmitted the healthy familys application and just need her pay stubs to finilise the application.
On 7/20 I asked her attorney to provide proof of my daughter having health care.
He has not .I want to address this in a more legal way and get it infront of the court asap
as I believe my daughter has been disadvantaged and put at risk by her mothers actins in delaying her health care coverage . also ther is substantial cost difference and I am not willing to pay for private if we can get good insc through the govt.
thanx.

So in other words, you are to cheap to pay for insurance so you want all of us to pay it for you.

 

[ceara19]

california
Ok sorry let me try it this way.

my daughters mother has temp custody.
6 weeks ago before the seperation I prepared healthy familys Health care application and asked her to mail it .she did not
we are now in a custody dispute and my daughter has no health care.
I represented this fact to her attorney on 7/18 and he said she had singned uo for blue cross.
I dont believe this is true.
I have in the meantime resubmitted the healthy familys application and just need her pay stubs to finilise the application.
On 7/20 I asked her attorney to provide proof of my daughter having health care.
He has not .I want to address this in a more legal way and get it infront of the court asap
as I believe my daughter has been disadvantaged and put at risk by her mothers actins in delaying her health care coverage . also ther is substantial cost difference and I am not willing to pay for private if we can get good insc through the govt.
thanx.

First of all, since MOM has custody, you have no right to sign the child up for government assistance.

If anyone is putting the child at risk with their actions, it's YOU. There is no such thing as "good insurance through the GOVERNMENT". The GOVERNMENT would be paying the bills with MY money and money from all of the other upstanding, tax-paying Americans. Considering the fact that I am the one paying for all of the health care costs, including insurance, for MY children out of MY pocket, what in the hell makes you think that I should pay for YOUR children too? I'll make you a deal, I'll pay for your child's insurance just as soon as you pay for my children's food, clothing and school supplies. How's that sound to you?

 

[Noelle_71]

california
Ok sorry let me try it this way.

my daughters mother has temp custody.
6 weeks ago before the seperation I prepared healthy familys Health care application and asked her to mail it .she did not
we are now in a custody dispute and my daughter has no health care.
I represented this fact to her attorney on 7/18 and he said she had singned uo for blue cross.
I dont believe this is true.
I have in the meantime resubmitted the healthy familys application and just need her pay stubs to finilise the application.
On 7/20 I asked her attorney to provide proof of my daughter having health care.
He has not .I want to address this in a more legal way and get it infront of the court asap
as I believe my daughter has been disadvantaged and put at risk by her mothers actins in delaying her health care coverage . also ther is substantial cost difference and I am not willing to pay for private if we can get good insc through the govt.
thanx.

Lemme guess...illegal alien?

 

[abstract99]

OP, the other posters do have a point.. however, you need to either get a written statement from your ex or her attorney stating that mom is insuring the child. If this goes to court and you are actually able to provide private health insurance and just don't want to because you think it costs too much then chances are good that the judge might not rule in your favor. It is government assistance for the people that NEED it not the people that are unwilling to pay for the private insurers.

 

[andrewmary]

Really

OP, the other posters do have a point.. however, you need to either get a written statement from your ex or her attorney stating that mom is insuring the child. If this goes to court and you are actually able to provide private health insurance and just don't want to because you think it costs too much then chances are good that the judge might not rule in your favor. It is government assistance for the people that NEED it not the people that are unwilling to pay for the private insurers.

It is in court 3 weeks now and I have been a sahd for 2 years Her mom was so hung over xmas day from dexidreine and beer she coulnt open presants and went back to bed till 5pm. great Thats when I said no more.I dec Bk to raies my DD after being home for 1 year and going thru savings,,, as Mom had been fired from last 2 jobs and it was a last chance to rehabilitae her emp history Her family is so pill dependant and if one member isnt bulimic then the other is morbidly obese
Oh and did I say mom has and is working under the table since she left school.in spite of my advise to straighten her act up . Assuming I get a job soon I expect Ill have all the benifits 401 HC etc and she will still be off the books meantime why should I pay inflated premiums based on her mothers medical issues if im entitled to H fam while I fix this mess up.

 

[ceara19]

It is in court 3 weeks now and I have been a sahd for 2 years Her mom was so hung over xmas day from dexidreine and beer she coulnt open presants and went back to bed till 5pm. great Thats when I said no more.I dec Bk to raies my DD after being home for 1 year and going thru savings,,, as Mom had been fired from last 2 jobs and it was a last chance to rehabilitae her emp history Her family is so pill dependant and if one member isnt bulimic then the other is morbidly obese
Oh and did I say mom has and is working under the table since she left school.in spite of my advise to straighten her act up . Assuming I get a job soon I expect Ill have all the benifits 401 HC etc and she will still be off the books meantime why should I pay inflated premiums based on her mothers medical issues if im entitled to H fam while I fix this mess up.

The REAL question is, why should WE pay for YOUR child's healthcare while YOU straighten up YOUR mess?

 

[abstract99]

The REAL question is, why should WE pay for YOUR child's healthcare while YOU straighten up YOUR mess?

Exactly! And she didn't seem that bad while you were looking at her from above huh?

 

[tigger22472]

Exactly! And she didn't seem that bad while you were looking at her from above huh?

Hold on.. how do you know it was HE that was looking down?

 

[ceara19]

Hold on.. how do you know it was HE that was looking down?

I don't care if he was blindfolded. He shouldn't expect US to pay to take care of HIS child.

 

[tigger22472]

I don't care if he was blindfolded. He shouldn't expect US to pay to take care of HIS child.

I agree....