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Health Insurance in Divorce

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I am recently divorced (Texas) and under the terms of the final decree, I am required to pay my ex-wife’s premiums until such time that a new policy is issued. On April 2, my controller (I own the company) sent my ex a letter advising that pursuant to her written request to continue under our group plan, that a new policy had been issued. In his letter her provided her with the new policy number, etc., and advised her that unless the premium was RECEIVED on or before May 2, a full month later, that the policy would be canceled. Less than a week later, we sent her a copy of the actual policy.

On May 2, the date set as the deadline for receipt of her premium, we still had not received her premium. As a curtsey, shortly before noon I sent her an email and left a voicemail advising that we had we had not received her premium and reminded her that unless we received it before the close of business that day, her policy would be canceled. She acknowledged receipt of the messages but made no effort to pay the premium. Therefore, her policy was canceled at the close of business on May 2.

The next day, May 3, she showed up at my office with a check in hand for the premium. We refused to accept it because 1) the policy had already been canceled and 2) I do not want her on the plan because she abuses the benefit by consulting doctors gratuitously resulting in a deplorable claims experience creating much higher premiums for the entire group. Therefore, we refused to accept her check.

Now her attorney is making all kinds of noise about a 60-day rule under COBRA. However, my understanding of the rule he is talking about is that it is the beneficiary’s right to elect coverage, not the employer’s right to expect premium payment once the coverage has been elected. Since she made the election in writing several weeks ago, I think his argument is misguided. Besides, I don’t believe COBRA is relevant here in Texas anyway. My understanding is that the law here is governed by Texas Health Insurance Continuation (or words to that effect), not COBRA.

My question is, given these circumstances, am I on solid legal ground in canceling her health policy?

Thank you.
 


ellencee

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Hartwell
Seems to me you want to have controversy and control. Take the woman's check and let her have her policy; you have then complied with the order and are no longer responsible for what happens with her insurance. At no time have you been a concerned party as regards for what purposes she uses the insurance. Such pettiness does not reflect your good characteristics.
 
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ellencee

Ellencee, it "seems to me" from your response to me and most other posts you have made on this site, that you are considerably less concerned with an objective response to the questions and issues raised than you are with championing the rights of women. If that is the case, it would serve you well to foster a sense of accountability in those you appear so interested in defending. Not doing so exacerbates dependency and double-standards... hardly desirable by-products.

Why not take the time to read my post again and this time pretend that I am a woman and it is my ex-husband that ignored the terms of the decree, then ignored a written notice for an entire month... and THEN ignored curtsey messages reminding [him] of his obligation to pay the premiums or risk losing [his] insurance. Suppose [he] chose instead to wait until the day after the deadline to comply. Given THOSE circumstances, would I seem controlling and unconcerned if I was a woman, ellencee?

If you prefer to view me as shallow, unsympathetic, and legally-hairsplitting, that's fine with me. Since this is, after all, a legal forum, do you have a response less steeped in personal political agenda and more suitable as an attempt at a genuine legal opinion?
 

ellencee

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Hartwell
My answer would be the same to a woman.
I see that I was incorrect, though, in assuming you had good characteristics that you wished to be obvious to others.
 
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Hartwell

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ellencee.. again

Yes, you're right, I'm characterless. Sleep well, my dear, your world view remains unchallenged and intact.
 

ellencee

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Hartwell
I would have emailed you, if that had been an option, so as to prevent other readers from having to endure this; but this will do.
You asked a legal question and I did indeed give you give a personal answer. My apologies.
I simply meant to suggest that you wouldn't have needed legal advice if you had simply accepted the check.
I have no problem with whatever you think of me.
 

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