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renne398
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What is the name of your state? Missouri
I have a 5 yr old daughter, her father and I have been split up for about 5 months. Her and i moved into our own place a year ago, and we have lived alone. He has spent most of her life in jail or prison, from drugs to drinking. He has recently gto a place to live about 15 minutes away with his new girlfriend who is barely 18, he is 28. His house is only a 2 bdrm, he also has a son that is 11, that has been passed from family member to family member. I feel like my hands are always tied, I am afraid if i dont do what he says he will take her an run, all i have asked out of him is to be a dad and help me out money wise with what he can, which is usually $50 a month. I will not allow her to stay at his house cause she does not have a room or bed of her own. The holidays are coming up, and his family all of a sudden what her, they never call and ask about her or want her until the holidays. I have been told i better let her go with her dad, and to his families! I have also been told any gifts she gets there she will not be allowed to bring home. I feel like i am beating my head into a wall, I am doing the best I can on my own, and I have been so excited cause I was able to make sure she had a good x-mas, and i have done it. Now her dad is breathing down neck. I am afraid if i dont let him have her he will sneak and take her from school. I can't afford an attorney, I feel that is my only way out of this. I want her to be able to have a dad but I want him to act like dad not just when he has time. Can anyone help me????? Thanks!!!
I have a 5 yr old daughter, her father and I have been split up for about 5 months. Her and i moved into our own place a year ago, and we have lived alone. He has spent most of her life in jail or prison, from drugs to drinking. He has recently gto a place to live about 15 minutes away with his new girlfriend who is barely 18, he is 28. His house is only a 2 bdrm, he also has a son that is 11, that has been passed from family member to family member. I feel like my hands are always tied, I am afraid if i dont do what he says he will take her an run, all i have asked out of him is to be a dad and help me out money wise with what he can, which is usually $50 a month. I will not allow her to stay at his house cause she does not have a room or bed of her own. The holidays are coming up, and his family all of a sudden what her, they never call and ask about her or want her until the holidays. I have been told i better let her go with her dad, and to his families! I have also been told any gifts she gets there she will not be allowed to bring home. I feel like i am beating my head into a wall, I am doing the best I can on my own, and I have been so excited cause I was able to make sure she had a good x-mas, and i have done it. Now her dad is breathing down neck. I am afraid if i dont let him have her he will sneak and take her from school. I can't afford an attorney, I feel that is my only way out of this. I want her to be able to have a dad but I want him to act like dad not just when he has time. Can anyone help me????? Thanks!!!