honestliving
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What is the name of your state? Maryland
SIT DOWN, IT'S A LONG ONE....
My husband, myself and our company (Sole proprietors) are named in a suit with 4 counts against and individual and two of his corporations:
1) defamation($2mil comp/$2mil punitive)
2) conspiracy ($2mil comp/$2mil punitive)
3) interference with business relations ($2mil comp/$2mil punitive)
4) preliminary and perm. injunction to remove the site. ($legal costs)
We have been dealing with this individual for the last 2 years. Long story short, my husband and I have operated our own business for the last 16 years. Then we started a separate business with this individual. We made one big mistake, we used our existing company's reputation as leverage to obtain our first credit accounts with the new company (we allowed them to use our existing companys banking info and DUNS for verification...). Both of which my husband signed and gave permission to for those accounts only.
Within a years time, we realized that he was not an honest business man, he was frauding people, he was lying, and he, himself was applying for credit accounts and obtaining credit/services and products using our financial credentials (fed tax ID, Duns, Checking acct numbers) without our knowledge or permission. Needless to say, we found out because he was defaulting on many of them and WE were getting the collection calls. We have written proof of his fraudulent activity.
Once we realized this, we used his attorney (another bad idea) to separate the relationship, demanded that he change the company name and discontinue use of it. He continued. In fact, he continued to obtain more accounts and more debt even after he changed the name!
We asked him on numerous occasions to stop, we confronted him about the debt, all the while he denied and continued to use and default on the credit which has grossly affected our Experian & DUNS credit standing (I've been fighting them for 2 years as well) and our relationship with our one and only advertising medium. I chose not to sue him, I was having him investigated privately instead. I wanted him behind bars not in the courtroom (hindsite hurts!).
So, since I had ownership of the company domain name, and kept it up and running for the year term as agreed to in our separation agreement, I posted the situation on the website as a WARNING to both customers and creditors. I stated the facts of his actions, which could be backed up and proven, but I also expressed my opinions and made statements. I stated that he was a "known fraud, a thief, and a con". All of which are true in my opinion because applying for credit with credentials belonging to someone else is fraud, receiving products from those fraudulently established accounts is theft, and he conned us and many of his customers into believing he was something he wasn't. I further stated that "once he has your personal information, you'll be his next victim.". Yes, that was an opinion, but it actually happened to us and I strongly feel that he victimizes people and they should be warned. I go on to say a couple other things about his business manner to "beware and stay clear as you may be his next victim". Again, opinion based upon my experience with him.
The final thing is that I refer to his newly formed businesses as "not so legitimate". He is suing us on his own behalf and on the behalf of two of his companies. One of which is the newly named company and one that is illegally operating in Maryland, for a fact. The other, operating on accounts established with our company credentials, so in my opinion, I stated FACT about the legitimacy of them. His attorneys feel otherwise.
I've consulted with an attorney, found out that these types of cases are very rare and can be hard for the plantiff to pursue - but apparently, I've said/written more than I should have and the suit can get very ugly and lengthy. One of the reasons we did not pursue him legally ourselves was cost. And now, we're at the juncture again and the cost is even greater to defend ourselves. I was advised to counter sue for the alleged fraudulent and identity theft issues, but all of this costs BOOKOO BUCKS, of which we do not have.
In your professional and experienced opinions, would it be prudent to try to defend ourselves? Pro Se? My husband feels strongly that we should and can, however neither of us has any legal experience, have never sued anyone, have never been sued, nor know anyone that has.... This makes me very nervous.
The attorney I spoke to (and paid for) indicated that if it were up to him, he would shoot for a DISMISSAL to start. And another attorney that I just casually talked to mentioned the counter suit as a viable option. Sounds viable yes, but again, is it something we can realistically handle pro se?!
Your advise, comments and suggestions in this matter would be greatly appreciated. Yes, I've been duped, yes, I've apparently been careless in my handling of this matter and yes, he beat me to the punch! What now?! If he wins, we could lose our business over this.
Thank you for reading.
SIT DOWN, IT'S A LONG ONE....
My husband, myself and our company (Sole proprietors) are named in a suit with 4 counts against and individual and two of his corporations:
1) defamation($2mil comp/$2mil punitive)
2) conspiracy ($2mil comp/$2mil punitive)
3) interference with business relations ($2mil comp/$2mil punitive)
4) preliminary and perm. injunction to remove the site. ($legal costs)
We have been dealing with this individual for the last 2 years. Long story short, my husband and I have operated our own business for the last 16 years. Then we started a separate business with this individual. We made one big mistake, we used our existing company's reputation as leverage to obtain our first credit accounts with the new company (we allowed them to use our existing companys banking info and DUNS for verification...). Both of which my husband signed and gave permission to for those accounts only.
Within a years time, we realized that he was not an honest business man, he was frauding people, he was lying, and he, himself was applying for credit accounts and obtaining credit/services and products using our financial credentials (fed tax ID, Duns, Checking acct numbers) without our knowledge or permission. Needless to say, we found out because he was defaulting on many of them and WE were getting the collection calls. We have written proof of his fraudulent activity.
Once we realized this, we used his attorney (another bad idea) to separate the relationship, demanded that he change the company name and discontinue use of it. He continued. In fact, he continued to obtain more accounts and more debt even after he changed the name!
We asked him on numerous occasions to stop, we confronted him about the debt, all the while he denied and continued to use and default on the credit which has grossly affected our Experian & DUNS credit standing (I've been fighting them for 2 years as well) and our relationship with our one and only advertising medium. I chose not to sue him, I was having him investigated privately instead. I wanted him behind bars not in the courtroom (hindsite hurts!).
So, since I had ownership of the company domain name, and kept it up and running for the year term as agreed to in our separation agreement, I posted the situation on the website as a WARNING to both customers and creditors. I stated the facts of his actions, which could be backed up and proven, but I also expressed my opinions and made statements. I stated that he was a "known fraud, a thief, and a con". All of which are true in my opinion because applying for credit with credentials belonging to someone else is fraud, receiving products from those fraudulently established accounts is theft, and he conned us and many of his customers into believing he was something he wasn't. I further stated that "once he has your personal information, you'll be his next victim.". Yes, that was an opinion, but it actually happened to us and I strongly feel that he victimizes people and they should be warned. I go on to say a couple other things about his business manner to "beware and stay clear as you may be his next victim". Again, opinion based upon my experience with him.
The final thing is that I refer to his newly formed businesses as "not so legitimate". He is suing us on his own behalf and on the behalf of two of his companies. One of which is the newly named company and one that is illegally operating in Maryland, for a fact. The other, operating on accounts established with our company credentials, so in my opinion, I stated FACT about the legitimacy of them. His attorneys feel otherwise.
I've consulted with an attorney, found out that these types of cases are very rare and can be hard for the plantiff to pursue - but apparently, I've said/written more than I should have and the suit can get very ugly and lengthy. One of the reasons we did not pursue him legally ourselves was cost. And now, we're at the juncture again and the cost is even greater to defend ourselves. I was advised to counter sue for the alleged fraudulent and identity theft issues, but all of this costs BOOKOO BUCKS, of which we do not have.
In your professional and experienced opinions, would it be prudent to try to defend ourselves? Pro Se? My husband feels strongly that we should and can, however neither of us has any legal experience, have never sued anyone, have never been sued, nor know anyone that has.... This makes me very nervous.
The attorney I spoke to (and paid for) indicated that if it were up to him, he would shoot for a DISMISSAL to start. And another attorney that I just casually talked to mentioned the counter suit as a viable option. Sounds viable yes, but again, is it something we can realistically handle pro se?!
Your advise, comments and suggestions in this matter would be greatly appreciated. Yes, I've been duped, yes, I've apparently been careless in my handling of this matter and yes, he beat me to the punch! What now?! If he wins, we could lose our business over this.
Thank you for reading.
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