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behonest

Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Atlanta

My housemate and I have never been on great terms, but we've gotten by until recently.

I asked if my boyfriend could stay here a while back and she said yes. He's been living here rent-free from June 11, so I get her point. For what it's worth, he's a nice guy and they seem to get along fine. He does her dishes and cleans up after her when he's here and he helped her when she locked her keys in the car. no big deal, whatever. I get that he's not on the lease, and shame on him and I.

My housemate is in and out of financial problems and she has lost her job a few times. The last time she lost her job she was out of work for quite a while and not being very financially responsible. She took a couple vacation trips and along the way had a money crisis and asked me for $300, which I gave her. She never paid it back. She also has had a really mean yappy dog that, shame on us, we never told the apt. company about for a year and a half. (pet rent is only 15/month and 300 deposit) They found out anyway probably because the dog barks a lot. every single person that comes in the house, including me, gets barked at for several minutes. Pees in the house sometimes. I never asked for the dog to be there, but again, whatever.

well, rent is due and my housemate is threatening to take me to court for 1/3 of rent+utils for past three months. Boyfriend has not changed utility costs btw, it's all pretty much a flat rate. He has offered to give her basically what she asked for, but hasn't done it yet, until we know more. We both feel pretty threatened.

I also have a long history of verbally abusive texts (I've only responded by trying to fix things, not by reciprocating), and it turns out the leasing office doesn't have my signature on this year's lease.

housemate says she'll take me to court and win and she'd done it before. Can she do this?
 


CourtClerk

Senior Member
I've never heard of utility bills being a flat rate unless you're on a level pay plan for your electric bill and even then, it adjusts. Your roommate is correct, your boyfriend shouldn't have the benefit of living somewhere for free. Where else in the world could he do that? The other option is that you pay 2/3 of the rent to cover you and the grown "man" living off of 2 women.
 

behonest

Junior Member
Did you read the whole thing?

It's an apt complex. Utilities are shared. They are about 300/month but mostly things like sewer.I'm happy to post a screen shot. Did you read the whole post?

Also she made this deal after the fact. I just want things to be fair. Do you honestly think they are?actually he wasn'teven there for half of that time because6he was out of state
 

ShyCat

Senior Member
Also she made this deal after the fact.
And now, after almost 3 months, she's tired of being taken advantage of and wants to restore some fairness (as she sees it) to the arrangement. If you bought a pizza to split evenly between you three, would you expect her to pay half or one-third? Feel free to negotiate if you think you can arrive at a fairer deal.
 

CourtClerk

Senior Member
I just want things to be fair. Do you honestly think they are?
I think she's being completely fair. She didn't bank on living with your boyfriend, no matter where he was. It appears now that instead of being a nice guy and all that jazz, now he's spent a bunch of time out of state. If he had things (clothing, toothbrushes and such) in your (the 2 of you) house, then he's inhabiting it, therefore he (or you) should pay your fair share. Why do you think he should be able to live there rent free? Where else in the world is he able to do that? If he has another option, then maybe he should exercise that option because 3 months is a lot more than a temporary arrangement.
 

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