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How can I establish paternity, as a father?

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Chardog

Member
What is the name of your state? CA

The mother of my son will not help me in any way with establishing paternity. I talked to my lawyer and she told me I can file "paternity action", and it would not cost me the thousands if I did that myself.

I tried to search the forums without any luck.

Thanks in advance.
 


rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
What county?
Have you already signed an affidavit of paternity at the hospital?
Have you gone to the Family Law Facilitator's office like I told you?
 

Chardog

Member
rmet4nzkx said:
What county?
Have you already signed an affidavit of paternity at the hospital?
Have you gone to the Family Law Facilitator's office like I told you?
I went through the links from the other thread. They were helpful, but I'm not good at searching.

I'm in LA county, I'll look for the office;
 

rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
No one can hold your hand.

LOS ANGELES COUNTY LAW LIBRARY:
The Family Law Facilitator service is provided in each county to help guide self-represented litigants ... Family Law Self Help - Los Angeles Superior Court ...

http://lalaw.lib.ca.us/selfhelp.html
American Bar Association - Resources for the Public
This page includes links to specialized subject areas and places to find low cost legal help.

California Courts Online Self Help Center http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/lowcost/flf.htm
Provided by the Judicial Council, the California Courts Self-Help Center seeks to help individuals understand court proceedings by providing information, procedures and forms, and valuable links for accessing additional resources.

California Family Law Facilitators Locator
The Family Law Facilitator service is provided in each county to help guide self-represented litigants through family law issues.

California Public Law Libraries
This newly revised site is a wealth of information. It includes where to find your nearest public law library, great legal research websites, and how to learn more about your local legal resources. It also has a link to AskNow, an online reference help service where a person can ask a legal or non-legal question.

Family Law Information Center
The Family Law Information Center, located in the Los Angeles Superior Court, provides family law information, referral and assistance to the public. The complied Referral List includes non-profit agencies, which provide family law services at low or no cost, as well as various Lawyer Referral Services. This list is not comprehensive. The Family Law Information Center is not responsible for the type of service you receive from the listed agencies.
Click here to view the FLIC Referral List.


Family Law · Overview · Family Law Information Center

Who We Are

The Family Law Information Center (FLIC) provides family law information, referral, and assistance to the public. In conjunction with other family law service providers at the court, FLIC provides legal forms and procedural guidance in the following areas: marital dissolution (divorce), legal separation, annulments, summary dissolutions, paternity and domestic violence prevention cases. Within these cases, assistance can be sought in many areas including child custody and visitation, child and spousal support and limited property issues.

The office staff, consisting of attorneys, paralegals and support personnel, does NOT give legal advice or represent any particular litigant. No confidential or attorney-client relationship is created or intended between the FLIC and any litigant. As there is no confidential relationship, the office staff may assist both sides of the same case.

Who Is Eligible To Use The FLIC?

There are no financial eligibility requirements at this time to prevent litigants from seeking assistance at FLIC. FLIC is unable, however, to assist litigants represented by an attorney.

What We Do

FLIC provides the following information:

* Explains the Court process
* Provides instructional information regarding the preparation of documents in family law matters
* Provides court forms and information regarding local court rules
* Provides referrals to the Family Court Services, the district Attorney’s Offices, the Family Law Facilitator’s Offices, various non-profit family law organizations, guardianship clinics and other community agencies
* Provides the viewing of instructional self-help videos with corresponding form packets
* Provides access to the Internet, reference materials and SmartLaw, a project of the Los Angeles County Bar Association

What You Need To Bring To FLIC

If you already have a court case:
Bring a complete copy of your Court case file. If you do not have a complete copy, you can obtain it from the courthouse where the case took place. The cost of photocopying is 57¢ per page. If you cannot afford this amount, you can apply for a Fee Waiver.

If you wish to start a court case:
Bring all the information you have regarding the issues that concern you. For instance, if one of your concerns is the custody of your children, then bring evidence of which parent the children are living with. This could include school or medical records, or a custody order in another case. If you want child support or the other parent wants child support from you, bring evidence of your income. This would include your last three pay stubs, or, if you are self-employed, an accounting showing your annual income from your business and your expenses.

Hours of Operation

Hours are subject to change.

Stanley Mosk Courthouse, Room 207 - (213) 893-9754

FLIC is staffed with a Paralegal and/or Office Assistant Monday – Wednesday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. and Thursday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.

FLIC is also open for litigants to pick up packets with instructions and blank forms, selected forms and referral lists on Monday through Wednesday from 3:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. and Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. Due to funding restrictions, FLIC staff is not available during these times to provide litigants with any assistance or answer any questions. FLIC shares office space with the Family Law Facilitator’s Office. The Family Law Facilitator’s Office staff can assist litigants with questions related to child support, spousal support and health insurance issues in Los Angeles County cases.

Tables are located in FLIC for litigants to use to complete their forms. Table space is available on a first-come basis and can be used Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. (excluding Thursdays from 1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.)

FLIC staff is available to answer general questions by telephone on Tuesdays from 3:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. and Fridays from 8:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m. to 2:30 p.m. Calls will be answered as staff is available.

Norwalk Courthouse - (562) 807-7300

Monday - Wednesday, Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. Thursday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. only.
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Establishing Parentage (Paternity)

This action is filed by an unmarried mother or by an unmarried father who have minor children together. Through this action, the Court will determine paternity (or non-paternity if the father is found not to be the biological father of the minor children), and make custody and visitation as well as child support orders.

Once an action is filed by a Petitioner, the other party, Respondent, must be personally served with specific paperwork. If the Respondent fails to file the necessary responding paperwork within thirty (30) days of service, the Petitioner may request the entry of default. Once the default is entered, the Petitioner can complete the paternity proceeding without the participation of the Respondent.

If the Respondent files the necessary responding paperwork, the case will then proceed as either a contested matter or an uncontested matter. The action is considered contested if the parties are unable to agree on some or all issues and the unresolved issues must be resolved by the Court. The action is considered uncontested if the parties are able to cooperate and agree on all issues outside of Court and the matter can proceed to its conclusion by submitting the necessary signed paperwork for the Court's signature.
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rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
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For information on establishing parentage by an administrative process, click here to go to the California Department of Child Support Services Paternity Opportunity Program web site.


Petition For Custody And Support Of Minor Children

This action may be filed by married or unmarried parents to obtain custody and support orders without filing a dissolution of marriage/legal separation or nullity action, if the parents of the minor children are married, or without filing an action to establish a parental relationship, if the parents of the minor children are unmarried. This action is limited and can only be used in certain situations by a married or unmarried parent. This action does not deal with property or marital status, if the parents are married, or establish a parental relationship, if the parents are unmarried. To address these other issues, the married parents would need to file an action requesting a dissolution of marriage/legal separation or nullity action. Unmarried parents need to file an action to establish the parental relationship.

Custody And Visitation

Before parents can address the issues of custody and visitation of their minor children, there must be an underlying action. If the parents are married, either the mother or the father must first file an action requesting a dissolution of marriage, legal separation, nullity or file the petition for custody and support of minor children's action. If the parents are unmarried, either the mother or the father must file an action to establish the parental relationship or file the petition for custody and support of minor children.

Once an underlying action has been filed, the Court can address the issues of custody and visitation. Further discussion of custody and visitation can be located by referring to the appropriate underlying action.

In Los Angeles County, custody and visitation issues may also be raised through an action initiated by the Child Support Services Department, formerly known as the District Attorney's Office - Bureau of Family Support Operations.

S.A.F.E. for Kids (Safe Access and Friendly Exchanges for Kids) provides low cost supervised visitation and neutral exchanges for children who may be at risk of emotional or physical harm following their parents' separation or divorce. Click here for information about the S.A.F.E. for Kids Program.

The "No Cost Safe Child Custody Exchange Service" provides safe exchanges of children between parents with or without court orders by a professional monitor. Click here for information about the "No Cost Safe Child Custody Exchange Service".

The Parenting Without Conflict Program is a free educational program which assists parents who are in high conflict to understand the effects of parental conflict upon their children. Parents learn the benefits of cooperative parenting, conflict resolution, problem-solving and communication skills. Click here for information about the Parenting Without Conflict Program.

In an effort to assist litigants and their attorneys in locating mental health professionals who perform child custody evaluations, the Los Angeles Superior Court has developed a list of mental health professionals who 1) provide counseling services for families experiencing conflict surrounding the custody and/or visitation of their children or 2) perform child custody evaluations. Click here to go to the Counselor and Evaluator Directory web page.

Legal Aid Foundation of Los Angeles
The Legal Aid Foundation of Los Angeles (LAFLA) operates six neighborhood offices and several courthouse clinics in Los Angeles, Long Beach, and Santa Monica.

Nolo Press
Nolo is a publisher of self-help law books. Their website contains many useful tools such as a legal dictionary, a law encyclopedia, and topic-related law centers.

State Bar of California - Public Services
The State Bar of California has provided this page to help self-represented litigants in areas such as locating a lawyer, making a simple will, and learning about the legal system.
 

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