More info to clarify
okay, this is really humiliating, but to clarify things I am going to go into more detail because I really need help with this issue. The first doctor I had been seeing, whenever I had a black eye, broken nose, whatever, I went and had it documented. I wanted a paper trail for when I got the courage to leave.
After one sexual assault from my husband I had forty stitches "inside" because I was "ripped and shredded to a pulp" (exact quote from ER Doctor). The ER Doc also said no sex for awhile so I could heal. This was not exceptable to my husband. A couple nights after the ER visit, my husband was so mad about the "no sex" issue, he punched me in my privates as hard as he could. I passed out from the pain and needless to say, there were bruises. THIS is why I went to my family practice doctor. I wanted the new bruises documented. When the doctor came in to examine me, he exclaimed "you have herpes". No cultures, no swabs, no type of test. No internal exam because I had already told him about the stitches. He didn't do ANYTHING. Just wrote it in my chart about the herpes. Well, I was stupid, naive and trusting. So for two years, I took the herpes medicine on a regular basis.
Then I found out my husband and he had become friends. I no longer trusted this doctor and switched doctors. I never went back to the first doctor. My new GYN took did all the herpes test. He told me I didn't have herpes. I've never taken medicine again for it and haven't had any problems. He also did test for EVERY STD, all negative.
A few years after that, I finally got the courage to run for my life. I went through the Victims Assistance Center for a protective order. My husband knew this. It took a few months to get into court for the protective order. DURING this time, my husband went to the first doctor and got him to write the letter saying I was a drug addict and needed rehab. I found out about the letter in court. My husband had a copy of my chart. My husbands brother is a narcotics officer in another state. (probably giving him advise to set me up)
I have never even had a speeding ticket. My husband had NOTHING to use against me in court. This is why I want to go after the doctor. The herpes incident is nothing compared to his writing a letter stating I needed rehab when he hadn't seen me in years and had nothing to base this letter on. I also got a copy of my chart. In the chart is a "phone message" from when my husband called the doctor to set up an appointment to see him. Apparently the doctor was busy and the nurse wrote a note that husband wants to see the doctor about "wifes drug abuse". This message is dated earlier than the date of the letter. This doctor had only prescribed antibotics for me. He even wrote I wouldn't fill the anti-depression medicine. But the documentation from the years of abuse was there.
There wasn't a court order for my records when the doctor gave him a copy. I didn't even think the doctor could discuss anything about me. Especially when he knew my husband was abusive and he was the one documenting it.
I feel very violated by this doctor and want something done about it. I was hoping the herpes incident would just add to the complaint against him. I spent about two hundred a month for around two years because of that.
I appreciate everyone's help on this.