Yes it's about them but what about their safety while in the unknown? That's what I'm also worried about. I am the only member of our family even willing to take the boys. They are 14 and 15. The 15 year old is disabled and has a very limited vocabulary. Almost none.If you care about the children then you would want CSB involved if she is in Summit County. And if CSB is involved then you would have to complete an ICPC (takes six months approximately) in order to get custody. But this has to be about THEIR safety over your wants. Is it?