heartbrokenmom2
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?New York
I am going thru a big custody battle, we started forensics with a forensic doctor appointed by the court, and the first day this guy told me to be very honest if he caught me lying there would be terrible consequences etc.. meaning he would nto believe any thing i said.....
I HAVE BEEN HONEST.... about everthing, now this guy seems like he believes me and my daughter, well when we get to court, the other day, his PRELIMINARY report which is incomplete, is a less that one page letter of 3 paragraphs, and states that the father should have supervised visitation in a clinical environment and i too as the mother should see the same doctor to attain better parenting skills in how to deal with my daughters feeling toward her father, and that it is clear to him that the child is reinstating her feeling thru me as her mother, meaning i am strengthening her feelings of hatred toward the father... NOW MY ATTORNEY SAYS THIS COULD ESCALATE INTO PARENTAL ALIENATION, how do i get this guy the forensic guy to understand taht i absolutely want my daughter to have a relationship with my daughter but due to the situation all i said is i need my daughter to come to grips iwth WHY she is so angry at him before i can expect her to regain her relationship with her father... i mean how can you prescribe a medication with out first seeing what the disease or sickness is... thats what i am trying to say, she is angry for numerous reasons, she needs to deal with that before she can deal iwth seeing him, but now i am being blamed for this when i did NOTHING... how do i fix this??? any one know?
I am going thru a big custody battle, we started forensics with a forensic doctor appointed by the court, and the first day this guy told me to be very honest if he caught me lying there would be terrible consequences etc.. meaning he would nto believe any thing i said.....
I HAVE BEEN HONEST.... about everthing, now this guy seems like he believes me and my daughter, well when we get to court, the other day, his PRELIMINARY report which is incomplete, is a less that one page letter of 3 paragraphs, and states that the father should have supervised visitation in a clinical environment and i too as the mother should see the same doctor to attain better parenting skills in how to deal with my daughters feeling toward her father, and that it is clear to him that the child is reinstating her feeling thru me as her mother, meaning i am strengthening her feelings of hatred toward the father... NOW MY ATTORNEY SAYS THIS COULD ESCALATE INTO PARENTAL ALIENATION, how do i get this guy the forensic guy to understand taht i absolutely want my daughter to have a relationship with my daughter but due to the situation all i said is i need my daughter to come to grips iwth WHY she is so angry at him before i can expect her to regain her relationship with her father... i mean how can you prescribe a medication with out first seeing what the disease or sickness is... thats what i am trying to say, she is angry for numerous reasons, she needs to deal with that before she can deal iwth seeing him, but now i am being blamed for this when i did NOTHING... how do i fix this??? any one know?