I don't know what can be done about this...weird!

[sja3901]

What is the name of your state?

MA

My boyfriend's mother is forever talking trash about me. Not just your run of the mill stuff either. She will tell anyone who will listen that I practice witchcraft and I have put a hex on her son. She is telling people that I am a danger to my daughter (her granddaughter). She is claiming that the "ghost" in her house is telling her all this stuff about me. She also has her loony tenant involved with this ridiculous crap. She harrasses her son about me all the time. What can I do about this from a legal stand point? And what if I do practice witchcraft? Isn't she in some sort of violation of my religious freedom? I know this all sounds nuts. The woman is a total lunatic. But I am so sick and tired of dealing with this fruit loop; what can I do?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

What can I do about this from a legal stand point?

Does a dead chicken nailed to her front door bring any ideas?

 

[sja3901]

I have had a ton of people tell me the same thing. But she would probably proceed to call the cops on me and have me kicked off the property (which her and her husband own) and my boyfriend lives upstairs from her. Right now he is not in a good position financially to move. He wishes he was. I live with my sister and she would not take kindly to a third person moving in. I am hoping to get out of here in a few years and get my own place.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

I guess you didn't take the hint. there's not one thing you can do legally. It's her opinion and she's entitled to it. Just as you are entitled to your opinion of this skank-tooth hippo who runs up a giant electric bill each month using her vibrator because her husband can't take enough showers to stand to touch her.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

What exactly is going on?
Do you practice Witchcraft?
You have a number of threads started with questions about custody, claiming your child's father has gf's yet you call him your bf here and talk about living together, is that your intent, you also say he is a drug abuser and bipolar, is his mother bipolar? At the same time you don't even have a place of your own, you live with your sisiter.
There is a whole lot more going on than possible slandar so you are going to have to be honest about what is happening.

 

[JETX]

What can I do about this from a legal stand point?

Nothing you describe is illegal.

And what if I do practice witchcraft? Isn't she in some sort of violation of my religious freedom?

No. Relgious freedom is NOT a protected right.
The First Amendment says: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances."
Unless she is a member of Congress and trying to pass a law against your practices, there is nothing wrong.

I know this all sounds nuts.

You're right!! It sounds nuts that you would even be concerned about what this lady says and does. You don't live with her, do you??

The woman is a total lunatic. But I am so sick and tired of dealing with this fruit loop

Probably about as much as she is tired of dealing with a fruitcake!!

what can I do?

Simple, don't see her or go over there. Let her do whatever she wants in her world.... you stay in yours. Pretty simple, huh??

 

[sja3901]

rmet........most of that has nothing to do with this post. I don't know if the mother is bipolar, I don't suspect she is. Paranoid Schizo maybe. My daughter's father and I have recently reconcilled but have decided not to live together at this time (more my decision than his), as if that is of any great importance and might possibly make a difference in the matter at hand. ???

Unfortunately this is not as cut and dry as you all seem to think it is. My daughter spends time in that house because that is where her father lives. I am very concerned with the state of affairs over there. Do I not have any rights as to what goes on infront of my daughter over there? Crazy mother has taken up doing some sort of ritual to release the evil from her house (!?!) down in the basement apartment. Like I said her tenants are nuts too so they have no problem with this.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

rmet........most of that has nothing to do with this post. I don't know if the mother is bipolar, I don't suspect she is. Paranoid Schizo maybe. My daughter's father and I have recently reconcilled but have decided not to live together at this time (more my decision than his), as if that is of any great importance and might possibly make a difference in the matter at hand. ???

Unfortunately this is not as cut and dry as you all seem to think it is. My daughter spends time in that house because that is where her father lives. I am very concerned with the state of affairs over there. Do I not have any rights as to what goes on infront of my daughter over there? Crazy mother has taken up doing some sort of ritual to release the evil from her house (!?!) down in the basement apartment. Like I said her tenants are nuts too so they have no problem with this.

I said there was more to this picture than you are telling us because none of it makes any sense taken in the overall picture of what you have presented. Furthermore your most recent post only confirms this observation. That is far from cut and dry.

You are making claims that this woman is mentally ill but it is only your non expert opinion, however mental disorders do run in families that is why I asked because you made reference to your bf's bipolar illness. If your daughter is spending time there you have a right to make sure her health and safety are assured but making unsubstantiated accusations is not the way to approoach it and sounda more like you are trying to limit visitation.

If you are truly reconcilled, then living together is the answer to your problem, right? But there is no reconcilliation is there? Perhaps he is just asserting his right to visitation?

She is free to cleanse her house of evil spirits.

You failed to answer the quesiton if you practice witchcraft, so we must assume you do, so your accusations regarding her mental stability have less creditability.

 

[sja3901]

No I don't practice witchcraft, sorry I missed answering that question. She probably is mentally ill, because your right, mental illness is hereditary. No I am not trying to limit visitation.....my visitation order is with her father not his mother, so what are u talking about!? You keep going back to him but we are talking about his mother. What is your fascination with him? He is doing good right now, on his meds, off drugs and alcohol. Attending therapy, attending AA. So if u could please point out where I am saying he is an issue in my current post that would be great.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

His visitation order is with him, unless there is language in the order excluding his mother, he is allowed to have is daughter anywhere and with whom he pleases including his mother so she is involved also.

You are trying to limit visitation and looking for excuses.

I have no fascination with your bf, he has to be discussed because of the issues you raised, you are the one not being honest here.

 

[sja3901]

I love posting to this board because the majority of the people have no idea what they are talking about and it's hilarious!!!!

 

[sja3901]

Did I Say Anything About Limiting Visitation Anywhere In This Post, Yes Or No!!!!!?????? Duh!!!! Pay Attention! Or Stop Replying To This Thread!