I Don't Know What To Do!!!

[mmoore0701]

What is the name of your state? Washington

Hi.

To make a long story short (well, I will still try to explain) ...
My ex husband and I were divorced on March 30, 2007 - he re-married a "friend" of mine May 31st 2007- since the re-marriage I have been harrassed and I am SO sick and tired of it.

I had to miss 2 days work and 2 days of school for an anti-harassment order that was a COMPLETLY false document drawn up by my ex's new wife- THEN I had to show up in court- the judge listened to both sides and the case was dropped out- he just told us to not contact one another for 3 months- My ex wanted me to pay the legal fees for this and the judge said NO. The judge asked my ex to leave and called my father in (he was with me) and told us that it was denied, but that I have a case to get an anit-harassment order against my ex- I said that I did not want to because I want to MORE THAN ANYTHING- to move on. The judge said that is my choice, but the remember that I have that option.

That SAME day- after my ex lost- he filed a small claims court claim against me for $4,000. I had a paralegal look everything over because in the divorce I took $3200 worth of our items and he took $22,000 worth of our items- I was ALL ready for court and I was there, on-time, and he chose not to show- I pointed out to the judge that this is just ON GOING harassment that will not stop- the judge said that he was "sorry" and that the case was being thrown out.

TODAY!!! I just received ANOTHER anti-harassment order ...

WHAT DO I DO!????

I moved to 30 miles away from where he lives, I changed my cell phone number (twice- each time costing me more money), my e-mail address twice, and EVERYTHING else. I don't see him or his new wife- I DON'T care about them.

I DON'T know what to do! I am SO sick of this.

I have NO money and he know's it. I go to college FULL time and work full time. I just WANT to move on!!!

PLEASE someone help me.

I am sorry I am freaking out, I am just so tired of this. It is depressing and emotionally draining.

Thanks.

 

[Silverplum]

I Don't Know What To Do!!!
What is the name of your state? Washington

Well, for starters you could type your problem and ask for help.

 

[LdiJ]

What is the name of your state? Washington

Hi.

To make a long story short (well, I will still try to explain) ...
My ex husband and I were divorced on March 30, 2007 - he re-married a "friend" of mine May 31st 2007- since the re-marriage I have been harrassed and I am SO sick and tired of it.

I had to miss 2 days work and 2 days of school for an anti-harassment order that was a COMPLETLY false document drawn up by my ex's new wife- THEN I had to show up in court- the judge listened to both sides and the case was dropped out- he just told us to not contact one another for 3 months- My ex wanted me to pay the legal fees for this and the judge said NO. The judge asked my ex to leave and called my father in (he was with me) and told us that it was denied, but that I have a case to get an anit-harassment order against my ex- I said that I did not want to because I want to MORE THAN ANYTHING- to move on. The judge said that is my choice, but the remember that I have that option.

That SAME day- after my ex lost- he filed a small claims court claim against me for $4,000. I had a paralegal look everything over because in the divorce I took $3200 worth of our items and he took $22,000 worth of our items- I was ALL ready for court and I was there, on-time, and he chose not to show- I pointed out to the judge that this is just ON GOING harassment that will not stop- the judge said that he was "sorry" and that the case was being thrown out.

TODAY!!! I just received ANOTHER anti-harassment order ...

WHAT DO I DO!????

I moved to 30 miles away from where he lives, I changed my cell phone number (twice- each time costing me more money), my e-mail address twice, and EVERYTHING else. I don't see him or his new wife- I DON'T care about them.

I DON'T know what to do! I am SO sick of this.

I have NO money and he know's it. I go to college FULL time and work full time. I just WANT to move on!!!

PLEASE someone help me.

I am sorry I am freaking out, I am just so tired of this. It is depressing and emotionally draining.

Thanks.

Finally take the judge's advice and file an anti harassment case against them.