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mandiikay

Junior Member
What is the name of your state?Florida

Im 14 and i dont want to live at home with my parents anymore because one my step dad lives a double life he has a wife that i have to sit infront of ever day and lie to and i care about her just as much as i do my step brothers well there not really step but might as well call them my step because me step dad has been seeing my mom for about 13 years now...i hate the fact i have to lie i moved here from ohio about 6 years ago but my step dads wife thinks we moved down here about a year ago cuz my mom had cancer witch is not true but not the cancer they told her my mom had.... for the last year i have been livein a complete lie i have to lie about everything...my mom has never started drinking till about 4 months ago and thats when we stayed at my dads during the hurricans.as ive been in the state of florida i have seen my dad hit my mom 2 times when we lived in ohio he kicked us out and my mom got into a car wreck and he didnt come... my step dad has called me a whore and slut just becuz guys come over and we would play basketball... just about 2 weeks ago my step dads wife came over and my mom and him were in the bedroom lucky for my mom she heard her knock but my dad was still in the bedroom she went around the house about a 5 times then to a neighbors then my dad came out of the closet and went out back and she called him a lier....i dont like the fact i have to lie to people i care about just cuz they want doesnt mean bring me and my younger sister in it when my mom gets mad at him cuz its not her way she takes it out my lil sister Dee Dee ive seen my mom grab her by her neck and everything all becuz my step dad would say the house was dirty im sorry but when you have 4 kids and a 2 bedroom house dont exspect it to be perfect ask anyone that has been here our house is clean ok there might be some toys here and there well 3 girls share a room that was once a garage but they made it a room ones 12 goin to be 13 then theres me im goin to be 15 and my littlest sister who is 7 goin to be 8 my little brother is always back here too with his little friends because its were the TV and Computer and Games are....i dont know what to do ive ran away for help all they did for me was tell me i cant help my dads double life well what do they got to say when its rippin my family apart???
 


thelizzy

Member
Please edit your post and add some punctuation, maybe some paragraphs. It's pretty unintelligible at this point.
 
You probably can't do much at 14 kid, but it would help if you could put together a coherent paragraph...

Stay in school, whatever you do!!!
 

sbplost

Junior Member
I thought this site was supposed to be here to help people. Boy, was I wrong. This child is needing support. She opened her heart to us and all you can do is criticize her for her grammer. It was probably hard enough to tell her story much less have you bash her for it. She obviously is reaching out.

To the child:

If it's bad enough, and only you know, contact your department of human resources (or what ever your county calls it). But be aware that they may or may not remove you from the home. There are people to help you just keep looking.
 

Ragasa

Junior Member
It seems like you're under a lot of stress because of all these issues. My thoughts are, you're 14 years old and clearly know right from wrong. I understand that you're lieing out of fear...but maybe you should just not say anything and turn the other way when questioned...that way people find out the truth on their own.
 

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