What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
Hello everyone -
I will get straight to the point here. I am currently in the fight of my life dealing with my sons mother and the courts.
Back in the fall of 2004, an order of court was issued for custody through a hearing officer. Of course, I got the low end of the stick. I kept my head high and spent every minute with my son.
From the fall of 2004 until present, the times have changed completely. You see, my sons mother pursued her career and needed me to have our son more and more- I took him every minute I could.
This is the current custody times(not through the court) The times are when my son is with me.
week 1
Sunday 12am-Monday 8:30pm
Wed 6pm-Friday 3:30 pm
Sat 9am-8:30pm
week 2
Monday 9am-8:30pm
Wed 6pm-Friday 3:30pm
Sat 9am-Sun midnight
As you can see, I have my son 3 nights a week.
When you break down the time, it goes like this
I have our son over 80% of his waking time
I have our son 54% to her 46% of total time.
On top of this, I am still paying her money.
We are working through a counselor but she is not willing to budge financially and it's going to be a court fight to have the"physically" definition changed.
My question:
Even though we had a hearing officer issue the partial custody papers, does the current custody arrangement between me and my sons mother supersede that order?- The new times have been in place for a while and a pattern has been well established.
I just need some help here and appreciate any answers and welcome any questions.
Thanks
Hello everyone -
I will get straight to the point here. I am currently in the fight of my life dealing with my sons mother and the courts.
Back in the fall of 2004, an order of court was issued for custody through a hearing officer. Of course, I got the low end of the stick. I kept my head high and spent every minute with my son.
From the fall of 2004 until present, the times have changed completely. You see, my sons mother pursued her career and needed me to have our son more and more- I took him every minute I could.
This is the current custody times(not through the court) The times are when my son is with me.
week 1
Sunday 12am-Monday 8:30pm
Wed 6pm-Friday 3:30 pm
Sat 9am-8:30pm
week 2
Monday 9am-8:30pm
Wed 6pm-Friday 3:30pm
Sat 9am-Sun midnight
As you can see, I have my son 3 nights a week.
When you break down the time, it goes like this
I have our son over 80% of his waking time
I have our son 54% to her 46% of total time.
On top of this, I am still paying her money.
We are working through a counselor but she is not willing to budge financially and it's going to be a court fight to have the"physically" definition changed.
My question:
Even though we had a hearing officer issue the partial custody papers, does the current custody arrangement between me and my sons mother supersede that order?- The new times have been in place for a while and a pattern has been well established.
I just need some help here and appreciate any answers and welcome any questions.
Thanks