What is the name of your state? My ex g.f filed a lawsuit against me yesterday. She gave me money that she did not want returned to her when we were together. I told her i would pay her the money back regardless and she refused to accept payment, which i have text messages from her stating in her words with her phone number showing that she refused to take the money back. Now that she knows the relationship will not get fixed, she went and filled a lawsuit to get this money back from me, when i told her i did not want to hear from her again. What can i do in this situation? I dont think i should return money to her specially when she was refusing payment and now took it to court out of anger.