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In a coversation with Bobbi Jo...

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she informed me that she filed for her income tax refund and did not receive a penny for her daughter because she was unemployed for most of the year and did not earn enough to receive credit for her daughter therefore she would be unable to make payment towards the judgment using her income tax refund. Although her and I do "get along" at the momment, I do not trust her and from what she told me next you will understand why. She said that when she filed to receive child support and filled out and filed the Mother's Written Statement Alleging Paternity she identified and named Fuad as an alleged father and another man as well and the CSRU sent notices to Fuad and the other man but named Fuad the legal father because he did not respond to the notice within the time that they allowed. She said too that after Fuad was named the legal father of her child that she requested the CSRU to contact the other alleged father once more for paternity testing and to create a child support order against him because she believed that Fuad was not the biological father and they refused because the other alleged father was and may still be in College. BUT during our most recent Judgment Debtor's Examination we were allowed to question her about her child's biological father and she stated that she "did not know who the biological father was" or who the "possible biological father was" and we also questioned her about a message that she had sent to us via email stating that she did in fact know who the biological father was and he did not want anything to do with her daughter and she would not file for child support because he was in College and she would not receive much anyways and that he would only want to be a part of her daughters life in order to get back at her for making him pay the child support and that would hurt her daughter but she denied ever writting those email messages. Bobbi Jo's story changes from a lie in court to the truth on the telephone but how can we prove that she in fact does know who the biological father of her child is and that she is in contempt of court? Is there any cheap recording device that we can connect to the telephone to record her confessions? Please help, you will be much appreciated. Thank you, Shannon
 


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bethdetroit

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I was in Radio Sake this morning picking up a jack thingy for my phone. And they have telephone recording devices for under 50.00.
Also you can get a answering machine that will recored conversations when you press a button. I am not sure how much theses cost but I am sure less than 100.00 sence answering machines are not that popular sence voice mail was started.

Hope it helps.
take care, beth
 
Thank you bethdetroit...

your response is the most helpful that I have received yet:)
If I can record Bobbi Jo's confession that she does in fact know who fathered her child and/or that she knew who fathered her child before or after she had given birth to the child and filed to recieve child support benefits identifying and naming Fuad as the "alleged father" over the telephone then I know for a fact that I can prove that she is in contempt of court because during our most recent Judgment Debtor's Examination I brought a voice recorder and recorded the coversations between me, her, Fuad and the Judge and I recorded the answers that she gave in response to the questions that the Judge was asking which included her denying knowing who fathered her child, which is something that I failed to mention in my post. If and when I present this to the Judge Fuad and I will ask for a bench warrant, which is only granted if the Debtor is found in contempt of the court and will order the Debtor to remain in jail until the judgment is paid in full. I can assure you, I have never been so excited to make a visit to the Radio Shake!:) THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!
Shannon
 
bethdetroit...

Can you please send me the link to your daughters' webpage via email, for some reason the page won't load when I copy and paste the link or even type the link into my search bar. Thanks
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Check here for taping laws http://www.rcfp.org/taping/ ... As far as I know, if she's in a different state, the more restrictive law of the two would need to be followed. But be aware that even if you can tape the call - a court may not admit it in as evidence. And even if it is, the fact that Fuad has been judged to be the legal father (due to his failing to respond) - it may not do any good at all.
 
Momma_Tiger,

Thank you for your advice! Yes, Fuad did not contest to the paternity of the child when the mother of the child and the CSRU ordered him to pay child support but when the mother of the child began to refuse him any visitation with the child Fuad began to request paternity testing which the mother refused to perform, so Fuad hired an attorney and filed a petition to overcome paternity therefore ordering the mother of the child to perform the paternity test. Fuad was proven NOT the child's biological father and the paternity between Fuad and the child was disestablished and any and all child support obligations on behalf of the child were terminated. Although Fuad requested his attorney to request that the mother be ordered to reimburse him for any and all monies collected from Fuad for child support he failed to do so, so Fuad sued the mother in Small Claims court and won a default judgment in the amount of $2,500.00 for "Wrongfully Collected Child Support". The tape recordings of her confessions will be used to help and support our case in Small Claims court to prove that she is in contempt of court if the Judge allows the recordings to be submitted as evidence against her and if so, a warrant will be issued for her arrest and she will be held on a Bench Warrant until she complies with the order and pays the full amount of the judgment to Fuad. Fuad and I have both tried to "get" a written confession from her in each of our notes to her by ending our notes with "So, do you plan to file for child support against your daughter's biological father?" or "So, has your husband adopted your daughter yet?" but for each question she has no response, except for when we question her over the telephone. There are so many mistakes that we have made concerning Fuad's situation and we want to make sure that we know each and every right that we have to collect on this judgment. I am not sure as to whether or not you knew of our situation before now but above is a short summary of the hell that we have been put through for the past three years and the hell that we will have to endure for the next seven years if she fails to pay the judgment within that time. And if she fails to pay the judgment within that time our fight for our Justice will NOT end there and I have made that clear to her as well.
Thank you for your advice and the link, we really appreciate it!
Shannon and Fuad
 

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