hi tm,
i dont see your reasoning
Consider, too, what you are getting that you've not mentioned. You had 14 years living in the house, presumably rent free, saving you a lot of money. Inheriting the property after your mother dies wipes out all the income tax gain in the house that had accumulated over the time your mother owned it. If you promptly sold the house after you received it, you'd have little or no income tax capital gain to pay. You may also be getting the home with a low real property assessment, too. You'll have an asset from which you may continue to get income from rent and a property that may continue to appreciate in value faster than other investments. Finally, you get to retain a place to continue to live rent free. Your sister isn't going to enjoy any of those benefits. So to me the issue of what the proper split should be is not as clear or simple as you might like it to be, especially if you want a truly fair outcome for both of you.
hi tm, not sure i get your reasoning, here. the 14 years living in the house is really a separate issue from the inheritance. that was something between the mother and son. i would not want to guess as to what it was. but as long as the mother chose to do this freely, i see it as a non-issue.
most assets are not gonna have any capital gain to report, as i am assuming that it is all gonna be inherited with a stepped up basis. all assets have their own advantages. if one person has a home to live in, then the other person has some other asset with its own advantages. like perhaps some investment that gives him current income.
in my post, i stated i was assuming that the intention of the mother was to share things equally. which to me means that the kids get an appraisal of all of the main assets, and either work out a plan of their own that both can agree to. or they sell some of those assets, until they can agree. or until all that is left is cash, and there is nothing to agree on. certainly if some assets have capital gains on them, and others do not, this needs to be taken into consideration. just as assets that have mortgages on them, etc.
but inheriting the house is not necessarily any better or worse than inheriting anything else. i think that all depends on the wants and needs of any particular individual. am i missing a point that you were making ?