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I received a phone call from a person whom I know, he sponsored my work with my current boss by providing me some facilities through an agreement. That person accused me of many things, which I know are all invalid. This is what he did:
1- He said I was not trustworthy, lack credibility, dishonest, not candid, with bad intentions,
2- He said that I have disrespectful, and 'my dishonesty' could affect my work and he said he will tell my boss of work about my 'misconduct' and 'irresponsible' action.
3- He was furious in pointing out his lack in trust in me in every way and considered me a person who deserves no respect in any way.
What happened between us is something related to some professional agreement between us and even though I met all my obligations, he failed to raise a point that I didn't meet because it wasn't in the contract. But he may have taken it personally. He thinks that I should have assumed that article was in the contract, but it wasn't. I cannot give the detail of that item as it is too sensitive. Any way, what I can tell you is that I never broke any rule in the contract, and because I know I never broke any rule and did not have any bad intentions whatsoever, I found it offensive for him to conclude otherwise and accuse me of decieving him. I tried to explain, but he was never convinced. At one point, he said "Don't give me this bull****" in a direct conversation.
Is this legal? If it is not, what are my options in case he spreads a bad word about my dignity and reputation, which I value very much. I fear he will inform others negatively about me and I would gain a bad reputation because of his actions, particularly if he informs my boss, and others whom I know.
I didn't respond to him on the phone and was very hurt emotionally and that has affected my peace of mind thinking of the implications if he spreads a bad word about me beyond us. Is there a way to react to this after I finish my work with him or just act now. I think I will not continue much longer with him any way (I can go on for a few more months only). Do you think that human rights groups will help more than law enforcement methods.
I appreciate your kind consultation.
I received a phone call from a person whom I know, he sponsored my work with my current boss by providing me some facilities through an agreement. That person accused me of many things, which I know are all invalid. This is what he did:
1- He said I was not trustworthy, lack credibility, dishonest, not candid, with bad intentions,
2- He said that I have disrespectful, and 'my dishonesty' could affect my work and he said he will tell my boss of work about my 'misconduct' and 'irresponsible' action.
3- He was furious in pointing out his lack in trust in me in every way and considered me a person who deserves no respect in any way.
What happened between us is something related to some professional agreement between us and even though I met all my obligations, he failed to raise a point that I didn't meet because it wasn't in the contract. But he may have taken it personally. He thinks that I should have assumed that article was in the contract, but it wasn't. I cannot give the detail of that item as it is too sensitive. Any way, what I can tell you is that I never broke any rule in the contract, and because I know I never broke any rule and did not have any bad intentions whatsoever, I found it offensive for him to conclude otherwise and accuse me of decieving him. I tried to explain, but he was never convinced. At one point, he said "Don't give me this bull****" in a direct conversation.
Is this legal? If it is not, what are my options in case he spreads a bad word about my dignity and reputation, which I value very much. I fear he will inform others negatively about me and I would gain a bad reputation because of his actions, particularly if he informs my boss, and others whom I know.
I didn't respond to him on the phone and was very hurt emotionally and that has affected my peace of mind thinking of the implications if he spreads a bad word about me beyond us. Is there a way to react to this after I finish my work with him or just act now. I think I will not continue much longer with him any way (I can go on for a few more months only). Do you think that human rights groups will help more than law enforcement methods.
I appreciate your kind consultation.
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