The terms of my divorce in 1998 included that the life insurance policies in effect at the time be paid by the owners - his by my ex and mine to be paid by me. In addition the children were to be named as beneficiaries via trust until 2011. The policy under my name has been paid by my ex for the past 8 years and he has not been changed the beneficiary and still lists himself as my beneficiary. The ins. agent says that I cannot make the change. In addition my ex has borrowed against his policies without my knowledge or the consent of his majority age children (22 and 20). What are my rights and those of my children. Does the agent have to release to me or my children current life insurance audits? And does my ex have to repay those loans prior to 2011?