internet adultry?

[lils mom]

my husband has been out of our home for over 6 months, and was supposed to file a separation, he has had an affair that i yet have to proved with a P.I., well durning this time i had meet someone on the internet, and then my husband says he wants back togather, which im not at all interested in. He now thinks that im seeing or talking to someone on the net, and has asked me about it, and i did'nt answer. Is there legal grounds in South Carolina for adultry over the internet, if they hack my computer and get into it? I have never seen this person face to face, and do not plan to, until my divorce is final, am saving now to get a divorce and paying a P.I as we speak. I have 2 children, and was wondering if they could get me with adultry over the net, what could happen to me? This is my first divorce and i have no idea what im doing . but am very concern at this point to think that my husband has had an affair and i would be the one to pay for it. please advise asap, im very confused!! thanks to all for you help.

 

[Grandma B]

Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their spouse. You cannot commit adultery via internet.

 

[lils mom]

yes i agree !!

yes grandma B i do agree with this, atleast in my heart. My main concern is my children here!!! I had been told by some people that is was considered adultry, and that they could get the conversations off the net if they wanted them, they could hack the computer and get what they wanted. I was also told if they did that would hurt my custody battel, if i have one. my husband would be that sneeky to do something like this too......i would really like to know legally about this though, so i know what im up against!!!.... thanks so much for the reply, i needed to hear your understanding words!.... thanks again!! lils mom

 

[REParker819]

If your main concern was with your children, why then would you want to get involved with someone over the Internet? You do not know this person, other than what he has told you. Those things, of course, may not even be true. This man could be a child molester, a murderer, anything, and you have no way of knowing. You possibly do not know his real name. It is too easy to lie and decieve most people over the net. I would recommend that you drop this person, for the sake of what could possible happen to you and your children. God Bless.

 

[HomeGuru]

Although you have not comitted anything illegal, there are indeed ways to retrieve all your internet activity from websites, email etc. from your computer hard drive. Even if you have destroyed all printed email and deleted same from your computer, you are at risk. How do you think the FBI, CIA etc. get some of their evidence. Even Bill Gates had a problem over this.

 

[LegalBeagle]

Re: yes i agree !!

yes grandma B i do agree with this, atleast in my heart. My main concern is my children here!!! I had been told by some people that is was considered adultry, and that they could get the conversations off the net if they wanted them, they could hack the computer and get what they wanted. I was also told if they did that would hurt my custody battel, if i have one. my husband would be that sneeky to do something like this too......i would really like to know legally about this though, so i know what im up against!!!.... thanks so much for the reply, i needed to hear your understanding words!.... thanks again!! lils mom

It is not adultery. Period.

To prove adultery can be costly and very time consuming. You will both end up doing serious harm and damage to the children.

I suggest you both just go for a no fault, uncontested divorce and stop trying to out do each other. Get a divorce, get over it and then you can have all the affairs you want.

 

[lils mom]

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To reassure you, the children do not even know at this point that we are divorcing, and i would never even fight him on adultry if i did'nt have too, i have no ill feeling for my husband, aven if he has done what he's done, im at this point , just want to be prepared, in case that he does do something to try to take my kids, i have learned from many divorced people that you must be prepared for the worst, and when it comes to my kids they come first, one thing i can say about our married was we never envolved them in the middle, which was our best quality of our marriage. To ease your mind about the internet man that's im talking too,... this is a man whom has been a part of my aunts family for over 12 yrs, i have never met him in person, but was introduced to him by my aunt, and they think alot of him, and even though im not at all ready for a relationship or an affair at this point, i do enjoy talking to him very much... i never had that before, and i do enjoy it. thanks for all of your concerns,,, it's good to know there is still good people out there!! thanks again,, lils mom