StepMamainOC
Junior Member
I'm in California. Our court order reads our schedule with the minor child is as follows..."Every other Friday with a pickup from either daycare or school, with a return to either daycare or school on Monday morning, commencing on Friday, July 9, 2004 and continuing thereafter." My assumption would then be that Friday is the beginning of OUR weekend custody. We actually have my stepson also overnight every Wed and four additional weeks out of the year, but this is the word for word statement for our every other weekend visit, in our current court order.
So...here is my actual question? When does the day begin? My husband's ex-wife has been picking up my step-son at school almost every Friday, on our weekend. This weekend is Labor Day and we wanted to pick him up around 11am, take him to lunch and spend the rest of the day at the beach with him. She states that she has the day off and is going to an amusment park with him. My husband told her that we already had plans and she said "tough, your visitation doesn't start until after work and you can either pick him up at my house, or I can drop him off". Well, visitation doesn't say anything about us getting him "after work", AND it clearly states that our pick up is at daycare.
What do we do?
So...here is my actual question? When does the day begin? My husband's ex-wife has been picking up my step-son at school almost every Friday, on our weekend. This weekend is Labor Day and we wanted to pick him up around 11am, take him to lunch and spend the rest of the day at the beach with him. She states that she has the day off and is going to an amusment park with him. My husband told her that we already had plans and she said "tough, your visitation doesn't start until after work and you can either pick him up at my house, or I can drop him off". Well, visitation doesn't say anything about us getting him "after work", AND it clearly states that our pick up is at daycare.
What do we do?