Invaded

[Invaded]

I really hate my mother and I am in the process of suing her. She found out that I had an abortion by going into my records while she was at work (she is a nurse). She led me on for 4 months, and then she told my Dad. I am 20 years old now, a legal adult. My Dad was upset, and he is giving me money to do this suit. She says that she cares about me, and that is why she told him because I live with him. Her attorney and the hospital attorneys are now digging up things about me and my past. I have had some problems in school and with the law, which are all coming out in these depositions. I am claiming punitive damages and emotional distress. I have not lost any income, and I have not yet sought counseling, but I plan on it soon. I want to go after the health plan and my mother for whatever they got. They did me wrong and they should pay me and pay dearly for violating me. What do you think I can get from them? I want the maximum the law allows. I live in California. Also, can she avoid paying me if she declairs bankruptcy. As far as I know, she has her retirement and not much else. Also, the other attorneys are extremely tough, but I want to WIN!

 

[ALawyer]

If you are suing I assume you have a lawyer and if so ask YOUR lawyer. If you do not have a lawyer you will likely get ZERO and be obliged to pay the other side's costs and expenses.

The most you can get is irrelevant -- if the jury would award $100 trillion dollars you would not collect it.

One more thing I can tell you from 35 years as a lawyer. In matters like these, with parent against child and parent against parent, the most valuable thing you can do is get family counselling. It is far more effective than the legal process and will lead to far less grief and anguish, short and long term.

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[Invaded]

Well you know what? I really don't care to go to counseling with that witch. She has never been on my side, my Dad has always been there to help me get out of trouble. Now they are trying to show that I was in need of counseling before all of this by going into my personal history. I never counted on all of this, that witch. She says that she cares about me, I'm glad that my Dad and I are suing her. She won't let me talk to my little sister because she says that I'm a bad influence. I hope that she looses her socks off. Her husband is supporting her; he's so stupid. He thinks that my Dad is doing this on the rebound, so what, she deserves it. I'm not the sick one, she is. She needs the counseling, not me. All I need is ALL of her money. Thank you Lady Fable, you are my kind of woman. My Dad supports me, my Mom must pay. Yes I have an attorney. I really hope that he protects me more, though.

 

[BESURE]

INVADED, I CAN'T CRY ENOUGH FOR HOW YOU REFER TO YOUR MOM WHO: 1. CARRIED IN THE WOMB FOR 9 MONTHS. 2.brought you to this world , fed you, cared for you, those sleeps she lost in the night at your early age , drove you to andfrom school. (INFACT i don't know where to start andwhere to stop). This is the mom you have the pride to mock, call names and plan evil against. YOU are proud you are suing her with your dad. I want you to know that GOD is against you. "HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER" (COMMANDMENT NO. 3). Do you see any clause there that permits you in any way to insult her?.You owe her an apology and a big one too?. You can never in your life wipe off that mom and daughter tie between you and her. How will you feel if your daughter calls you awitch? Please don't even tell me you won't behave like your 'cos i already know you are opposites. I will say your Mom is such anice and wonderful, God fearing lady that likes to bring up well behaved children pleasing to God and man. We want to hear in your next reply you have made peace with her. As for her money, God will never permit you to get a farthing from her.

 

[y]

Tell,oh knowledgeable ones, what can this young "lady" expect to get if she has not lost time from work, suffered emotional distress, or had any proveable damages? Let's get out your picks and shovels for that old glittery stuff (get it?)

 

[Jontue]

Sweetie, Please sit back and take some time to just think about what your doing and why and most importantly why she did what she did. You may feel hostile towards her now, but as time goes on i'm sure your feelings will change towards your mother. Don't kill the feelings that are to come. You never know you may grow up to be best friends, the way it typically happens with mom's and daughters. It just doesn't happen until LATER. Rest on this. She may have been ashamed and or disappointed, that's what she's supposed to do as a MOM. Give it time and think about it Later.
Just a heartfelt thought from a mom who loves her daughter dearly and having a hard time dealing with "I'm 18, now what"? We are trying very hard to deal with all the up's and down's cuz we know in a couple of years we will both feel differant about everything we feel now. Give it time and think about what to do later. THINK....

 

[LadyFable]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face=" Arial, Verdana, Helvetica">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by BESURE:
INVADED, I CAN'T CRY ENOUGH FOR HOW YOU REFER TO YOUR MOM WHO: 1. CARRIED IN THE WOMB FOR 9 MONTHS. 2.brought you to this world , fed you, cared for you, those sleeps she lost in the night at your early age , drove you to andfrom school. (INFACT i don't know where to start andwhere to stop). This is the mom you have the pride to mock, call names and plan evil against. YOU are proud you are suing her with your dad. I want you to know that GOD is against you. "HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER" (COMMANDMENT NO. 3). Do you see any clause there that permits you in any way to insult her?.You owe her an apology and a big one too?. You can never in your life wipe off that mom and daughter tie between you and her. How will you feel if your daughter calls you awitch? Please don't even tell me you won't behave like your 'cos i already know you are opposites. I will say your Mom is such anice and wonderful, God fearing lady that likes to bring up well behaved children pleasing to God and man. We want to hear in your next reply you have made peace with her. As for her money, God will never permit you to get a farthing from her.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I can't believe the "holier than thou" crap you spew.... Who are YOU to judge another human being ? How do you know how God thinks about this woman who had her privacy violated and by her own birth mother no less. We do not know what this girl/woman was put thru by her mother. Just because a woman carries a child for 9 months, and gives birth DOESN'T call her a mother. Obviously this woman has a reason for disliking the woman who gave her birth. Those reasons are HER own as well. I don't necessrily agree with suing the woman for releasing personal information but her reasons are her own. I'm so happy that you know exactly what God thinks. You are such a wise woman (cough) and some one I know I could respect immensely (NOT)....

 

[y]

Hey...Hey...Hey...Girls, stop it, I'm sure everyone has their point. Regardless, what I think is appropriate to find out is what are the damages here? I don't see any. There are no lost wages,no emotional distress (or if she had, she did not seek counseling) and no injury. What does she want to achieve, and is it realistic? I'm sorry, I just have a gut feeling that there is more of a motive here. Do you think that just maybe her Dad is behind all of this?. It sounds like he is the one that wants to inflict punitive damages on the mother. After all, he is the rescuer from all her past trouble. Just a thought. OH, by the way, the next time you complain about your health insurance premiums increasing, think about this necessary "family squabble lawsuit" taking the funds away from your care. Young lady, it's grow up time. Knock off this stupidity. Go to college, become a doctor.....or a nurse.

 

[y]

Hey....Hey....Hey.... Let's stop this. What is the real point here....damages....and I don't see any. What is she trying to claim, emotional distress, lost time from work, unjury? Nothing has been substantiated. Does she even have a case? Maybe she could get an apology, I'm sure that would be no problem. I have a feeling that there is more to this. Daughter says that Dad is always getting her out of trouble. Could he be behind this in order to cause problems for his exwife? Is daughter using one parent against the other, she sound very manipulative. In any event, when anyone here goes to get health insurance and is upset about the premiums increasing, just think about the necessity of this "family squabble lawsuit" and how much is being taken away from your family. Young lady, GROW UP, stop this stupidily. Efforts better spent going to college. Become a doctor........or a nurse.

 

[y]

Where is my post?

 

[y]

Forgive me, my post did not show for a while so I redid it; don't mean to be a pest.