enigma1774
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Vermont has Jurisdiction
Brief history: My son was 13 and decided he wanted to stay with his father when my husband and I seperated. I live in Florida and am remarried, My son lives in Vermont with his father, my parents are also in Vermont and active in my sons life when his father allows it. I have visits with my son 5-6 times a year, court ordered, and I pay child support as is my duty. The problem is....
1. My ex is a narcissist to the most extreme measures and uses our son as a pawn, but that is another issue I am taking up in court... I just wanted you to be aware of the whole situation.
2. The issue: My husband is living in a room of a house that he shares with our 16 year old son. My ex and his girlfriend were evicted from the residence they lived in for 2 years. As a result the girlfriend is at her mothers, and my son is living in a home with a woman and two children having to share a room and bed with his father. Two years prior to this latest eviction he was forced to leave the previouse residence because of nonpayment of rent and trashed the place. The same thing happened this time. He has no job, no stable place to live and no intrest in even trying to better the situation. I am working on my petition for modification of custody right now. There are a lot more factors involved, but I want to know if while I am waiting for the court to schedule a hearing for modification, should I contact child services to make them aware of the living situation? I just don't feel it is right that a 16 year old is sleeping with his 40 year old father every night when my mother lives one mile away and has an empty room for my son....but not his father.
Any suggestions appreciated.
Brief history: My son was 13 and decided he wanted to stay with his father when my husband and I seperated. I live in Florida and am remarried, My son lives in Vermont with his father, my parents are also in Vermont and active in my sons life when his father allows it. I have visits with my son 5-6 times a year, court ordered, and I pay child support as is my duty. The problem is....
1. My ex is a narcissist to the most extreme measures and uses our son as a pawn, but that is another issue I am taking up in court... I just wanted you to be aware of the whole situation.
2. The issue: My husband is living in a room of a house that he shares with our 16 year old son. My ex and his girlfriend were evicted from the residence they lived in for 2 years. As a result the girlfriend is at her mothers, and my son is living in a home with a woman and two children having to share a room and bed with his father. Two years prior to this latest eviction he was forced to leave the previouse residence because of nonpayment of rent and trashed the place. The same thing happened this time. He has no job, no stable place to live and no intrest in even trying to better the situation. I am working on my petition for modification of custody right now. There are a lot more factors involved, but I want to know if while I am waiting for the court to schedule a hearing for modification, should I contact child services to make them aware of the living situation? I just don't feel it is right that a 16 year old is sleeping with his 40 year old father every night when my mother lives one mile away and has an empty room for my son....but not his father.
Any suggestions appreciated.
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