So this involves multiple states. Order was done by divorce decree in TN. After the divorce non custodial moved to California, I moved to NC and filed the order in NC for enforcement. Non custodial then didn’t pay for years. There is a significant arrearage of around $65k. There were 4 kids on the original order. Recently the kids have been aging out and no modification of the original order happened (original order was for around $900 a month, no specific amount per child). I have attempted several times to have the order modified and have been unable to because he doesn’t respond to requests for his information to modify. This includes when the older 3 aged out. He is now in Ohio, and for the past 6 months or so has been paying in the order. The youngest is about to age out and he filed the motion to terminate based on that which is fine. But now Ohio refuses to release payments. They are now sitting on around $1200 in wage garnishments from the past several weeks. When I asked they said this is standard due to possibility of overpayment. When I pointed out that he was $65k behind so that was sort of impossible, she said that he has mentioned filing a motion to try to retroactively modify the arrearages based on the older kids aging out and not modifying it at the time. I didn’t think that was even possible. Is it? Because if not they have no reason to hold money that belongs to me. Is there anything I can do to get this released prior to the order being terminated which won’t actually happen for 2 more months?