Is my being residential parent safe?

[Father-in-pain]

What is the name of your state?Ohio
Wife and I just had final divorce hearing. We have 29 month old child. Both of us found, by the court, to be extremely fit parents. Only dispute in court is Mom wants to get custody and take our child to Florida with her. She has nothing waiting on her there she just said that she doesn't like the weather here and wants to live closer to her cousin in Florida. I, on the other hand, want to keep daughter here in Ohio and most of all want for both parents to be involved in her life to the fullest. Mom states to court that even if court says our child stays here, she is leaving and going to Florida leaving her daughter behind and everything. Now, lets say the magistrate would leave daughter with me and give her Mom extended parenting for 2-3 months per year (the magistrate did say that one of us will get this). Later down the road I think this is too much of an impact on our child only seeing her mother for this little bit of time and decide to make the huge sacrifice and leave family and everything here in Ohio and move to Florida so child can have both parents in her life. As long as I line everything up and have a job and good safe home waiting on us, once I get there, could It end up being reversed on me and I actually get "punished" for making this sacrifice by being forced to switch the right as residential parent over to my wife for some reason. I just dont want this act of unselfishness and sacrifice to come back and bite me in the behind somehow.

 

[stealth2]

STOP with the serial threads! PLEASE! We all understand you're worried. We've all been there. WE GET IT! But posting the same thing over and over and over is only going to get everyone else as aggravated as I'm getting. I don't want to weed through 50 posts of yours that say the same thing! I read it once, I got it. If you have another question - ask it in the same thread. But PLEASE STOP cluttering up the board this way!

THANK YOU!

 

[Father-in-pain]

STOP with the serial threads! PLEASE! We all understand you're worried. We've all been there. WE GET IT! But posting the same thing over and over and over is only going to get everyone else as aggravated as I'm getting. I don't want to weed through 50 posts of yours that say the same thing! I read it once, I got it. If you have another question - ask it in the same thread. But PLEASE STOP cluttering up the board this way!

THANK YOU!

Stealth2,
As much as I appreciate your input, this website forum is the only one that I have ever belonged to. I only felt that I was supposed to do this so that those reading my post for the first time would not ask me "Please tell me more information" like they have done before. I'm trying to do the right thing here. If there is a way to refer those people to my past threads then teach me how to do it. Now, from your last post, your ability to act in a childish manner is evident but can you answer the question? THANK YOU

 

[LdiJ]

Stealth2,
As much as I appreciate your input, this website forum is the only one that I have ever belonged to. I only felt that I was supposed to do this so that those reading my post for the first time would not ask me "Please tell me more information" like they have done before. I'm trying to do the right thing here. If there is a way to refer those people to my past threads then teach me how to do it. Now, from your last post, your ability to act in a childish manner is evident but can you answer the question? THANK YOU

The last thing that Stealth is, is childish. You have started two separate threads today...you could have easily added information to just one thread.

You can find your old threads by simply clicking on your own screen name...and could easily add messages to an old thead that way.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Stealth2,
As much as I appreciate your input, this website forum is the only one that I have ever belonged to. I only felt that I was supposed to do this so that those reading my post for the first time would not ask me "Please tell me more information" like they have done before. I'm trying to do the right thing here. If there is a way to refer those people to my past threads then teach me how to do it. Now, from your last post, your ability to act in a childish manner is evident but can you answer the question? THANK YOU

Here is a link to another of your threads, please respond here.
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=263432

 

[stealth2]

I do NOT have a crystal ball and therefore CANNOT tell you whether or not you will prevail. NOONE here can.

You have multiple threads with the same and additional info on them. Take a look at how many people post here with questions. Can you understand how it can get time-consuming to then have to go through each of those posters' other threads to piece together their story and information? Do you understand that all of us here volunteer our time?

If you click on your name at the beginning of your thread, you'll see that you can go to your profile. If you do that, you'll see you can click a link that will bring you to a list of all the threads you've started. Click on one, and post to that ONE. Then we all are operating on the same information, we're not repeating info you've already gotten and can more efficiently help you and others.

PLEASE, try to help us help you - and all the others whose situations are as important to them as yours is to you. I remember those days all too well - which is why I'm here.

 

[stealth2]

your ability to act in a childish manner is evident

Call it frustration. Because that's what it is.