Yes there is a 5 year old boy involved here. My husband and I were apart for 6 months while he moved to Maryland to find work and I continued to work in Pa. When he came to pick us up to move us to Md, he brought his first girlfriend and told me she was living with us as his girlfriend as he was adopting a new lifestyle of polyamory, domination & submission and this was how it was from now on. This was March of 1998. In this time the first girlfriend has since moved on and he has moved another one in. WHen I came home from visiting my family at Easter, I came home to him telling me she treats him better than I ever did and I have to leave. I filed for divorce under adultery and he has told me he will bankrupt my parents with a custody suit. Hence the mess I am in.
