Shinobu100
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I live in the state of New Hampshire southern side.
I am a 21 year old male who lives with my mother for several reasons one of em is because she needs the support from her family.
I am going to be as detailed as possible and will not beat around the bush or sound one sided because I want advice that I can act on I need this to stop for my mothers sake who is 40 years old and suffering from high anxiety and has already been in the hospital from it.
My Mothers family has been doing this for years. We would get into arguements with eachother and not speak to eachother for awhile then slowly crawl back to eachother reguardless of how bad it is my Mother is a very firm believer of family loving and caring about each other. My Aunt has 7 kids and has been with more men than we know of. My Mother doesn't approve of my Aunts actions and this causes alot of fights my Mother feels that my Aunts children do not need to go through a lifestyle like this with continuous fathers and my Aunts oldest child is 10 years old and he's talked about how he's walked in on her having sex many times. My Mother feels bad for her children and tried so hard to get her to change her lifestyle but my Aunt wouldn't instead she'd go off and insult our entire family then stop speaking to us and this time she is doing everything in her power to get even with us because we tried to get her kids taken away from her.
this next paragraph will be all about the problems with my OTHER aunt.
This isn't the jist of our problems. Another one of my Aunts and my Mother used to get along good although my Mother realized that my Aunt was two faced and corrupt. My Aunts children at 8 and 10 years old are both dressed up like prostitutes but my Mother never said anything about it, we both feel that it is because my Aunt is overweight and her children are not we feel that my Aunt wants to show there body's off as a means of doing something that she wishes she could do but she can't because she's overweight and does not have a body she can show off. But thats besides the point my Aunts husband owns 4 shotguns illegally he is not supposed to have guns but he does because she puts them under her name so he can have them. My Aunts daughters and my 10 year old sister did get along but my Aunts daughters were farely snobby toward her as they had different likes and dislikes that set them apart. My sister witnessed her children saying the F word around school so she told my Aunt about it and my Aunt proceeded to tell her to shut up and that her daughters would never say words like that. My sister told her she was telling the truth but she told her to shut her mouth or she'll shut it for her my Mother was there listening to this and as patient a women as she is she couldn't stand to hear anyone talk to her children like this she told her to get out of her house or she will have her removed and that she doesn't appreciate her talking to her daughter like this my Aunt called my Mother a stupid B(cencoring out swears u can figure it out) and told her she will regret this. Well sure enough we did my Mother and Step Dad witnessed my Aunt looking at her window spying on us as my Aunt just lived across the street from us we could see clearly. Her kids would go past our house and call my sisters names and so on. My aunt would drive by tooting the horn and calling us swear words really loud. We were trying our best to ignore her but it just wasn't working so my mother started yelling back at her when she was doing this stuff but it turned into mindless bickering back and forth for awhile our entire family got sick of it because it wasn't ending. So we started to ignore my Aunt we ignored that women for 3 month's reguardless of what she said or did. It bothered my Aunt and within a few days after 3 month's my Mom was cleaning the kitchen i was on the computer my Sisters were playing and my Step Dad was working on our family vehicle we witnessed my Aunt pull up her car in front of our house blaring her music as loud as possible she proceeded too yell taunted words as loud as she can to make sure my Mother could hear it so my Mother came out of the house and told her to get out of our yard. My Aunt got out of her car and started to charge toward my Mother she was pushing her finger against my Mothers chest as she was yelling at her in her face and my Mother was telling her to get the F out of her face and my Mother and her started yelling back and forth toward eachother my Mother eventually said something to her that got to her and she pushed my Mother and my Mother slapped her across the face and my step dad got in between it as did I and we got that women out of our yard she squeeled her tires off and we didn't hear from her for 2 days until we got a knock on our door that my Aunt had went to the court house and issued a restraining order on my Mother that prohibited my Mother from going within 100 yards of her the problem was we lived across the street from her my Mother was forced to stay in the house until the court hearing and she had to sneak out of the house to get to her job. The court hearing was bogus as well the Judge refused to listen to our witnesses but he listened to her witness mind you only one witness and we dont even recall this person being around during the event although we all were around to witness it the Judge issued the restraining order in effect as of that day and the restraining order was to last 1 year. My Mother was in tears crying because she had done nothing wrong to deserve this we had to move out of our house because of the restraining order but thanks to the court house we had to inform them of our new address and our Aunt was able to get that address through the court house whenever she wanted so we've been living like this for about a year now.
(Aunt1 is the Aunt from the first paragraph and Aunt2 is the Aunt from the second paragraph sorry im trying to avoid using names)
Whats been happening recently is far worse. My 2 Aunts have been collaberating with eachother it seems like they are both trying to find ways to destroy my Mothers life. About 6 month's ago we were on good terms with Aunt1 which came to a screeching halt because we found out that while she was married my Step Dads Brothers she was sleeping with 3 other men and after a long arguement that was the end of our good relations. After this was when we tried to get her kids taken away from her(mentioned this in paragraph 1). During the times we were in good terms with eachother my Mother was still pretty mad over my Aunt2 and that lead to extreme comments my Mother said something that she shouldn't have said she said it out of anger she said to Aunt1 when they were both talking about her, "she better get ready cuz when this restraining order is over its payback time" well not knowing that my Aunt1 was going to do that and cause us to get in bad terms with eachother again my Aunt1 stood in the court house with Aunt2 and told Aunt2 that my mother said "She said that when the restraining order is over you and your family better fear for your lives" she twisted the words around on my Mother to make it sound more devistating. So my Aunt2 included that in the paperwork about why she needs an extension on the restraining order. So about a month after that still waiting on the court hearing we get a knock on our door this was actually a couple days ago its the police saying they have a warrant for my Mothers arrest for assault. We watched them cuff my Mother not bothering to read her her rights and didn't even know anything about it just it was assault we have been around my Mother all this time and KNEW she did not leave the house to assault anyone she hasn't even gone NEAR my Aunt2 because of the restraining order. It turns out these assault charges were placed on her from that incident over a year ago in which I explained in paragraph 2 where my Aunt2 walked into our yard etc... etc. My Mother has heart problems and is suffering from extreme anxiety she's on medicine from it and has several hospital appointments coming up to run tests on her and we believe that alot of this is because of my Aunts actions they want her dead. And no matter how much we mind our own business they still do stuff to us to try to make us angry and destroy our lives in the process. We just want them to leave us alone, stay out of our life and we'll stay out of yours but they wont do that we dont know what to do about this and its not fair. Our lives are being twisted upside down because of it my Mother has been in an emotional state of panic lately and we're afraid that she may drive herself to a stroke or a heart attack because of it.
Is there anything that can be done about this? Mind you that my Aunts are VERY good at winning the law on there side....
I am a 21 year old male who lives with my mother for several reasons one of em is because she needs the support from her family.
I am going to be as detailed as possible and will not beat around the bush or sound one sided because I want advice that I can act on I need this to stop for my mothers sake who is 40 years old and suffering from high anxiety and has already been in the hospital from it.
My Mothers family has been doing this for years. We would get into arguements with eachother and not speak to eachother for awhile then slowly crawl back to eachother reguardless of how bad it is my Mother is a very firm believer of family loving and caring about each other. My Aunt has 7 kids and has been with more men than we know of. My Mother doesn't approve of my Aunts actions and this causes alot of fights my Mother feels that my Aunts children do not need to go through a lifestyle like this with continuous fathers and my Aunts oldest child is 10 years old and he's talked about how he's walked in on her having sex many times. My Mother feels bad for her children and tried so hard to get her to change her lifestyle but my Aunt wouldn't instead she'd go off and insult our entire family then stop speaking to us and this time she is doing everything in her power to get even with us because we tried to get her kids taken away from her.
this next paragraph will be all about the problems with my OTHER aunt.
This isn't the jist of our problems. Another one of my Aunts and my Mother used to get along good although my Mother realized that my Aunt was two faced and corrupt. My Aunts children at 8 and 10 years old are both dressed up like prostitutes but my Mother never said anything about it, we both feel that it is because my Aunt is overweight and her children are not we feel that my Aunt wants to show there body's off as a means of doing something that she wishes she could do but she can't because she's overweight and does not have a body she can show off. But thats besides the point my Aunts husband owns 4 shotguns illegally he is not supposed to have guns but he does because she puts them under her name so he can have them. My Aunts daughters and my 10 year old sister did get along but my Aunts daughters were farely snobby toward her as they had different likes and dislikes that set them apart. My sister witnessed her children saying the F word around school so she told my Aunt about it and my Aunt proceeded to tell her to shut up and that her daughters would never say words like that. My sister told her she was telling the truth but she told her to shut her mouth or she'll shut it for her my Mother was there listening to this and as patient a women as she is she couldn't stand to hear anyone talk to her children like this she told her to get out of her house or she will have her removed and that she doesn't appreciate her talking to her daughter like this my Aunt called my Mother a stupid B(cencoring out swears u can figure it out) and told her she will regret this. Well sure enough we did my Mother and Step Dad witnessed my Aunt looking at her window spying on us as my Aunt just lived across the street from us we could see clearly. Her kids would go past our house and call my sisters names and so on. My aunt would drive by tooting the horn and calling us swear words really loud. We were trying our best to ignore her but it just wasn't working so my mother started yelling back at her when she was doing this stuff but it turned into mindless bickering back and forth for awhile our entire family got sick of it because it wasn't ending. So we started to ignore my Aunt we ignored that women for 3 month's reguardless of what she said or did. It bothered my Aunt and within a few days after 3 month's my Mom was cleaning the kitchen i was on the computer my Sisters were playing and my Step Dad was working on our family vehicle we witnessed my Aunt pull up her car in front of our house blaring her music as loud as possible she proceeded too yell taunted words as loud as she can to make sure my Mother could hear it so my Mother came out of the house and told her to get out of our yard. My Aunt got out of her car and started to charge toward my Mother she was pushing her finger against my Mothers chest as she was yelling at her in her face and my Mother was telling her to get the F out of her face and my Mother and her started yelling back and forth toward eachother my Mother eventually said something to her that got to her and she pushed my Mother and my Mother slapped her across the face and my step dad got in between it as did I and we got that women out of our yard she squeeled her tires off and we didn't hear from her for 2 days until we got a knock on our door that my Aunt had went to the court house and issued a restraining order on my Mother that prohibited my Mother from going within 100 yards of her the problem was we lived across the street from her my Mother was forced to stay in the house until the court hearing and she had to sneak out of the house to get to her job. The court hearing was bogus as well the Judge refused to listen to our witnesses but he listened to her witness mind you only one witness and we dont even recall this person being around during the event although we all were around to witness it the Judge issued the restraining order in effect as of that day and the restraining order was to last 1 year. My Mother was in tears crying because she had done nothing wrong to deserve this we had to move out of our house because of the restraining order but thanks to the court house we had to inform them of our new address and our Aunt was able to get that address through the court house whenever she wanted so we've been living like this for about a year now.
(Aunt1 is the Aunt from the first paragraph and Aunt2 is the Aunt from the second paragraph sorry im trying to avoid using names)
Whats been happening recently is far worse. My 2 Aunts have been collaberating with eachother it seems like they are both trying to find ways to destroy my Mothers life. About 6 month's ago we were on good terms with Aunt1 which came to a screeching halt because we found out that while she was married my Step Dads Brothers she was sleeping with 3 other men and after a long arguement that was the end of our good relations. After this was when we tried to get her kids taken away from her(mentioned this in paragraph 1). During the times we were in good terms with eachother my Mother was still pretty mad over my Aunt2 and that lead to extreme comments my Mother said something that she shouldn't have said she said it out of anger she said to Aunt1 when they were both talking about her, "she better get ready cuz when this restraining order is over its payback time" well not knowing that my Aunt1 was going to do that and cause us to get in bad terms with eachother again my Aunt1 stood in the court house with Aunt2 and told Aunt2 that my mother said "She said that when the restraining order is over you and your family better fear for your lives" she twisted the words around on my Mother to make it sound more devistating. So my Aunt2 included that in the paperwork about why she needs an extension on the restraining order. So about a month after that still waiting on the court hearing we get a knock on our door this was actually a couple days ago its the police saying they have a warrant for my Mothers arrest for assault. We watched them cuff my Mother not bothering to read her her rights and didn't even know anything about it just it was assault we have been around my Mother all this time and KNEW she did not leave the house to assault anyone she hasn't even gone NEAR my Aunt2 because of the restraining order. It turns out these assault charges were placed on her from that incident over a year ago in which I explained in paragraph 2 where my Aunt2 walked into our yard etc... etc. My Mother has heart problems and is suffering from extreme anxiety she's on medicine from it and has several hospital appointments coming up to run tests on her and we believe that alot of this is because of my Aunts actions they want her dead. And no matter how much we mind our own business they still do stuff to us to try to make us angry and destroy our lives in the process. We just want them to leave us alone, stay out of our life and we'll stay out of yours but they wont do that we dont know what to do about this and its not fair. Our lives are being twisted upside down because of it my Mother has been in an emotional state of panic lately and we're afraid that she may drive herself to a stroke or a heart attack because of it.
Is there anything that can be done about this? Mind you that my Aunts are VERY good at winning the law on there side....
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