Ithidriel

[abstract99]

ANOTHER wife?? don't you already have an ex in AZ and in NJ and are behind on your child support

Wife number 1: Married at 17 (she was prego at 15, thought I was doing the right thing), joined the military, with my assignment to Korea I spent all of 1 month out of the 14 we were married with her. Came back from Korea to find out she had been cheating.

Wife number 2: Married at 25, spent 5 years married until I came back from a 3 month TDY to Saudi Arabia to find her in bed with another man.

Wife number 3: Married at 32, still married after 4 years and loving every second of it.

People make stupid decisions. The difference between this wife and the other 2? She supports me. She is there for me (unlike the other 2) when I need her and as an added plus, doesn't cheat on me.

And it is one in Az and one in NC.

 

[Ithildriel]

ANOTHER wife?? don't you already have an ex in AZ and in NJ and are behind on your child support

Serial husband.

 

[Ithildriel]

Wife number 1: Married at 17 (she was prego at 15, thought I was doing the right thing), joined the military, with my assignment to Korea I spent all of 1 month out of the 14 we were married with her. Came back from Korea to find out she had been cheating.

Wife number 2: Married at 25, spent 5 years married until I came back from a 3 month TDY to Saudi Arabia to find her in bed with another man.

Wife number 3: Married at 32, still married after 4 years and loving every second of it.

People make stupid decisions. The difference between this wife and the other 2? She supports me. She is there for me (unlike the other 2) when I need her and as an added plus, doesn't cheat on me.

And it is one in Az and one in NC.

Stick to NC.

 

[fairisfair]

Serial husband.

now you are reading mine.

 

[fairisfair]

Stick to NC.

. . . . huh ? . . .

 

[CALIF-LAWPRO62]

The difference between this wife and the other 2? She supports me. She is there for me (unlike the other 2) when I need her and as an added plus, doesn't cheat on me.

My response:

Applause! Applause!

IAAL

 

[fairisfair]

My response:

Applause! Applause!

IAAL

Oh, Puhleese!, she is there for him, unlike the other two? he is $$$$$ behind in his child support to both of them, where was he when they needed him? and I don't think he means support in the standing behind kind of way, I think she probably literally supports him. I think he has an owie on his back or something. As for the she got prego at 15, well I wonder how THAT happened. But hey, he was trying to get chummy with you, maybe it worked?

 

[Ithildriel]

. . . . huh ? . . .

He said he was thinking of moving to Cali, his wife was leaning to NC.

I live in Cali.

After reading that post, I felt he should stick to NC.

To make the wife happy of course.

 

[fairisfair]

He said he was thinking of moving to Cali, his wife was leaning to NC.

I live in Cali.

After reading that post, I felt he should stick to NC.

To make the wife happy of course.

Oh, I see, I was confused, cause I guess ex wife number 2 is also in NC, wow, yes, as I am in AZ with ex wife number 1, I second that NC motion. ( or would that be third?)

 

[splainthisone]

My response:

Mrs. Liable and I compete with each other on this point. But, when all is said and done, we love each other dearly - - as long as the jewelry and cash keep flowing in!

IAAL

Is Mrs. Liable's name "Bubba"?

 

[abstract99]

Oh, Puhleese!, she is there for him, unlike the other two? he is $$$$$ behind in his child support to both of them, where was he when they needed him? and I don't think he means support in the standing behind kind of way, I think she probably literally supports him. I think he has an owie on his back or something. As for the she got prego at 15, well I wonder how THAT happened. But hey, he was trying to get chummy with you, maybe it worked?

Oh and I suppose that when I was driving down the road and the drunk driver ran the red light going 65 MPH it was my fault as well huh? And when I had to go through rehab due to the shattered kneecap and 4 broken bones that was my fault as well huh? So while I was in rehab and couldn't pay my support due to the actions of a chump that decided he wanted to drink that much and drive I guess I was being a deadbeat. I made my mistake of not getting to court right away and I have dealt with the consequences. I pay now and HAVE BEEN paying for quite some time now so get off of your high perch.

And no my wife doesn't contribute a freicken cent to the child support. Why should she? It isn't her responsibility and I won't let her do it. He paychecks go towards her car payment, school and groceries. Sometime she pitches in for other things but her income is limited.

My first wife got prego at 15 because we were stupid teenagers and didn't use protection. Once again, my mistake but I wouldn't take it back for a second because that stupid action gave me a beautiful daughter and I wouldn't trade that for the world.

And I am not that far behind on my child support. I pay 100 more a month towards arrears than I even have to so once again get off your high horse. Not everyone out there is a "chummy" dad. I have taken responsibility for my actions and deal with the consequences.

And I am here every second my kids need me. Every time they call me crying because of something that happened in moms home I am there to listen. I am not here only for the $$$$. Stop thinking that a dads only job is to support a child financially because that is a crock. They need the emotional and financial support.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Is Mrs. Liable's name "Bubba"?

And here I thought you were my stalking troll. https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=324321

 

[fairisfair]

Oh and I suppose that when I was driving down the road and the drunk driver ran the red light going 65 MPH it was my fault as well huh? And when I had to go through rehab due to the shattered kneecap and 4 broken bones that was my fault as well huh? So while I was in rehab and couldn't pay my support due to the actions of a chump that decided he wanted to drink that much and drive I guess I was being a deadbeat. I made my mistake of not getting to court right away and I have dealt with the consequences. I pay now and HAVE BEEN paying for quite some time now so get off of your high perch.

whatever, apparently your children were to stop eating during that period?

And no my wife doesn't contribute a freicken cent to the child support. Why should she? It isn't her responsibility and I won't let her do it. He paychecks go towards her car payment, school and groceries. Sometime she pitches in for other things but her income is limited.
Nobody said anything about her paying your child support, it was about your comment that she supports YOU

My first wife got prego at 15 because we were stupid teenagers and didn't use protection. Once again, my mistake but I wouldn't take it back for a second because that stupid action gave me a beautiful daughter and I wouldn't trade that for the world.


And I am not that far behind on my child support. I pay 100 more a month towards arrears than I even have to so once again get off your high horse. Not everyone out there is a "chummy" dad. I have taken responsibility for my actions and deal with the consequences.

And I am here every second my kids need me. Every time they call me crying because of something that happened in moms home I am there to listen. I am not here only for the $$$$. Stop thinking that a dads only job is to support a child financially because that is a crock. They need the emotional and financial support.

so, your point is one out of two ain't bad??

 

[abstract99]

so, your point is one out of two ain't bad??

And if I was still married to that mom then I suppose I would have still been a deadbeat because I was in rehab? Yeah my kids had to eat. What do you suggest I did? Rob a bank? This wasn't out patient rehab... this was 6 months in a hospital just for the rehab alone not to mention the 3 other months that I was out cuz of the coma.

One out of what 2? When you get married a person is supposed to be there through the good times and the bad. My wife puts up with a lot of crap from my exes (even lost a job because of her harrassment) but she is still there for me. My otherwifes, NO I can't say they would do the same. Get your head out of the $$$ clud and remember that there is emotional support as well.