The state is NC. I am listed on savings, checking and stocks and bonds that my mother owns. What would happen if she has to go into a nursing home and has to spend down her assests, can I take my half before this happens? I don't want this for me, but for her, so I could use the money to benefit her. I have already helped her out with home health aides which Medicare does not cover. What is the best thing to do? Thank you.