just a semi-quick question

[misslawli]

What is the name of your state? Arizona
I have a son who will be 3yrs old in a month. His father (and Im using the term VERY loosely) Has not seen him in almost 10 months. nor has he made the effort. He usually shows up around my sons birthday (Aug 11) sees him once or twice over a 2 month span, and then makes no effort to see his son for the rest of the year. The last time he showed up 2 days before his 2nd birthday, 3 days shy of a year since he made any effort to make contact. he hung aroud for the first 2 months of my sons life. That about it. I have encouraged thier relationship, even offered to drive them to the park and leave while they bond. All oofers were refused. I am 26yrs old and in good health, but I know that accidents happen. Ideally I would like my mother to get custody if anything happens to me, but Ive heard that is unlikely since HE is the Bio father. He has a history of serious alcoholism and wont pay child supprt to me. It is not ordered. Any legal options or opinions?? Can show up 2 or 3 years down the road and demand to see my son?? THANX!!

 

[hexeliebe]

Check out this
Ariz. Rev. Stat. Ann. § 8-846(A) (West, WESTLAW through End of 2001-2002 1st Reg. & 4th Spec. Sess.)

and you'll find it here:

http://www.calib.com/nccanch/statutes/stats02/termin/az.cfm

Since the father continues making contact every year, you can't terminate his parental rights. And YOU don't have the authority to give your child to anyone. Even in your will.

The bio-father will receive the child upon your death, barring any disqualification like continued and prolonged drug use, incarceration and other actions which the court may consider a danger to the child.

The first thing I would do is go back to court for support. This is not for you but for the child. It sounds like this guy needs to get a wakeup call.