What is the name of your state? Vermont. My ex was incarcerated in 1998. I filed for child support and custody in 1997. The custody I got, the child support hearing was cancelled due to the state having a chinz hearing and claiming they had custody until further notice. That same day the judge dismissed the chinz hearing, since I was not and unfit mother, but, my child support hearing never got heard. Then 3 months later in December of 1997 my ex's attorney makes an agreement of 500.00 per month for my ex to pay for child support, and that this agreeement would be in place of having to go back to court. Since he was going to jail. I agreed. here it is 2005 and he is 16,000 in arrearages, and I have no court order due to my ex's attorney making this agreement. Do I have any recourse to get the back child support, court tells me no...so NOW WHAT DO I DO???? Feel like I have been swindled by this attorney. Was this ethical of her to do this??? FAith